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For those who have kept up to date with my older posts I thought I would try to sort things out without courts, lawyers etc for my bubas sake so I tried to make piece with her father, things were ok for afew days, txts back & forth saying she's ok etc- then I randomly got a txt from T saying I had flagged him off on a social network site (not true) I explained his sources are wrong & it should be spoken about like adults in person- Big mistake, he came over raising his voice, I told him to "talk" as LO was in room, this request was ignored so I asked him to leave, he said sorry & "talked" then the shouting started up again so I asked him to leave- he refused, saying im trying to stop him seeing her (also not true) I said I would call police so he left-- I didnt feel threatened but shocked & uneasy, how can some1 act so aggressive while a young child is in room.
I wasn't frightened I was more shocked & felt uneasy but mainly disgusted that a father can act so aggressive towards the woman who cares for his child 24/4 considering he doesn't lift a finger, no respect shown at all- if he can act so abusive infront of a young child what else is he capable of infront of her?!!!
Hi Tinkerbell2 I read your other post a minute ago and commented. It sounded so positive.
Now I read this, I am sorry to hear what you went through and your little one too, I hope she was ok?
When people lose control they don't care who they hurt in the process. I am presuming you have made a note of this incident to tell your lawyer?
Oh Tinkerbell, what a horrible experience for you, were you frightened or was it mainly thinkling of the effect on your daughter? Hopefully he will not come again but I would suggest not letting him in if he does. If he needs to talk, then a public place is best such as a cafe.
The social networking thing, often rumours spread and a lot of damage can be done with gossip and even with genuinely misinterpreted information.