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hi im in need of help my 7 children were put on intrem care order and im expecting my 8th in due may due to dv and prevs dv they took my children which now they are in foster care im in court procedding at the moment fighting to get them back they say my now ex has hurt my children but ive not witness this but i do beliveive them how can i have a chance in getting them back and stop them from putting an intrem care order on my unborn which is due in 11weeks they say i needed to leave my now ex partner which ive done im in a womens refuge atm and trying to all i can i do love all my children with all my heart and its killing me being apart i still dont know whats expected of me its tearing me apart not having them with me i dont know what to i have a solitors but i thinks she on the side of the ss and it feels like i have no chance of gettting them back and im going to lose my unborn to is any advice any 1 can give
If you've left him then surely you deserve a chance? Things like this sicken me when I see what idiots are allowed to get in to the system as employees (I won't put it on here though).
If you have eliminated the risk then they should in all fairness perhaps just put a liason officer to visit weekly for starters. I can't see how they can just take them.
Hello gemsmomof8
Welcome along, and I am so sorry to hear about what you have been going through.
So SS have told you that you need to separate from the father of your children and you have now done this and yet you still feel they are against you? What do Women's Aid say? They need to be involved in your re-settlement plans. Your solicitor needs to ask SS what they would be happy with, in order for you to get your children back. Someone from the refuge can go with you to see the solicitor and you have the right to get a different one if this person is not acting fully in your interests.
Please also contact The Family Rights Group (click) as they are specialists in supporting families with social services involvement. It's hard to get through on the phone but you can also email them.