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as anyone ex hacked onto ur facebook account or pretended to be sumone else,
thanks for ur reply goin thru court at min, long story luk at my thread on edge, ex pretended to b a lad, i added him, shudnt of dun, no tht now, to think ive bin spkin to my ex thinkin its anova lad, he even as my mobile nu now, i feel sick, it was in cafcass report, yet hes not allowed any contact thru social networks, i av a non molestation order against him, hes not allowed contact with my little girl,she is 2, ive deactivated my fb account for gud, to think hes bin lukin at my conversations and my pics,
Very upsetting kiera, but well done for deactivating your account.
Don't give yourself a hard time about speaking to your ex thinking it was someone else. It can't have been nice for you to find out, but you have dealt with it effectively and efficiently.
just lengths these men wil go thru
Are you 100% sure that it was him?
Oh Kiera
I have an harassment warning on my ex. He lives round the corner from me and I have had to install full cctv. Ive had car tyres done nails left outside the house. There is a fake account on twitter calling me names saying im a thief and things im meant to have done (police not interested even though it listed my name and where i lived and twitter did nothing either.
I close my FB account and started a new one spelt my name differently used my maiden name but instead of it being a N on the end i put an M. I can spell my 1st name many different ways so i did that too.
I now only have old school friends and my children, friends abroad. The key is to never have anyone on ther you dont know (I use twitter no friends of family know my name or who i am but i follow them - rather funny following my son he tolsd me i sound just like his mum)
Please be so so careful with these social net works. Lock down as much as you can and check your settings weekly. I have alerts when someone tried to hack it - daily.
I also suffered annon texts that got vile - a few different numbers so my work friend posted them on several social networking sites telling people what they were doing (wrong i know but it stopped within 24 hours)
Always here for a chat x x
HM
Good advice there happy mamma,
DO NOT GIVE OUT YOUR DETAILS TO ANYONE UNLESS YOU ARE COMPLETELY SURE OF WHO THEY ARE and that includes mobile numbers, facebook account names, address or any other social network accounts.
thank u for ur reply, my ex as done so many awful things its unbelievable, my ex as ad 2 harassment orders on him,he ignored them both, i av non molestation order on him, but worried if judge gives him no contact then he wil cum for me, x
That is completely understandable kiera, but if No Contact is ordered then you will have the police on your side, if he does decide to do something.
Again as said before, this is exactly what he wants you to think, he has programmed you to think, so perhaps you can try and take control of your life and know in your heart that whatever happens in the future - you will deal with it.
Kiera he sounds like a nightmare - can you move house?
Im stuck with my ex round the corner but have to say as it was valentines day his 'new' wife spent her evening driving past my house - who said romance is dead (love cctv)
Have you got a court date? Do you have a police office assigned to you? I have one and I email everything over to her so we have a full record?
Keep safe - hope your ok
HM
hi move house move country more like,yes my court date is 26th feb, meant to b a last hearing, a contested hearing, yet on the report cud b anova hearin so ex can do drug test again, as he used hair dye on his hair, tryin to avoid test,he as already ad a chance, the report is all bout him , he lied to cafcass lady to er face , he affed bout wot he ad dun to me on holiday when he put me in hospital, he is horrible man, he shdunt get no chancees and say no contact end of, he lied to cafacss lady to er face and she new it, even lied bout avin double life but she new had double life, so on report stil hes not allowed any sort contact with my little girl she is only 2, he asnt seen er over a year now, i just wana move on with my life and i cant, x
You can choose to move on kiera, you are the only one in control of the thoughts in your head.
he sounds nuts - the guy im with now saw him pass mine tonight on a bike puffing and panting like an old boiler - ive reviewed on cctv tonight and soooo funny but i dont know if banned for drink driving, run out of money to fix his poorly piosh car i paid for or hes realised hes so fat he needs exercise
Just remember KARMA its worked for me x
Oh yes ive had to close mine and start a new one and on twitter his 'new' wife and friend found me and wrote awful stuff about me the polce and twitter did nothing