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Ok so I considered myself quite close to A's fathers family member- she has always backed me with how lame A's father is and how un-supportive he is (i have all txts incase he askes me) She messages me late at night upset about her fella but I've found out yesterday that she's been slating me behind my back saying A's father is a great role model and it's ME who's the problem. I'm so upset as I'm the one who let her into A's life, her father didn't as this member has only seen A's father twice in 2 year. (they talk on phone but he's horrible to her) I feel like I've been used just as some1 to talk to when she has problems. She says I always mention my ex to her, yet another lie- if she asks me questions I answer. She's been running bk to A's father telling him in dating and all my business. I never want her near A again and I just want all visits with A's father in contact centre now as I don't want him in my life at all or to even see him! I've alwatrig one out my way for her father but I'm the one bringing up his child and he always comes out smelling of roses. He owes this family member £20.000 and hasn't paid a penny yet she's lying for his sale & licking his a**e
hello Louise, after a good nights sleep i totally agree with you. A's father shouldnt be punished because of the poor actions of another family member....i still stick by that the member will nevr see my daughter again as i dont believe in liers or two faced people, people shouldnt judge what they are to dumb and imature to understand- if any of his family members have something bad to say about him and come to me i will tell them to stop b****ing and too tell him instead of being cowards :)
Well said, Tinkerbell2!
Yes well said, stand your ground. !!!
Hello Tinkerbell2
There are two issues here. One is that this woman has betrayed your trust and has lied to you and understandably you are hurt, angry and do not wish to have anything more to do with her. In fact, good that you have found out now rather than further down the line!
Now the other thing.......whilst I totally sympathise with everything you go through with A's dad, his family member's behaviour does not really need to affect how you see him and if you do think that a contact centre would be a good idea in the long run then make the decision because of a range of rational reasons, not just because of this incident with the family member