hello, what is it with men?

Hi I am feeling a bit, weird. does this happen to you? I hardly ever go out, maybe once every 3 months, but this week have been harrassed by 2 men. I am not sure what I am feeling, sad or dissapointment, know it should be anger or defience, disgust maybe but just- let down, feels more the case and sad about the behaviour of men. I guess I feel violated but shock maybe! want to just ignore it but feel it should be shared. I was approaced by someone in my neighbouhood, walkin home alone at 7. 15 dark but not late, he was someone I had been for a drink with in afternoon few weeks before but had given (I thought) clear enough message wasnt interested as he was way too intense, texting and calling, I had been ignoring him and did say I want to be alone. But this night he was passing and got off his bike, chatting friendly, I was hot from being in hot room, he was cold so chatting about weather,' feel my hand', went on to touching my face with his, putting his arm round me and trying to kiss me, walking along home and saying no thanks, yes it was stupid to go for a drink if didnt want to encourage him but does this give him the right to touch me when I dont want and try n force me into things, and ultimately scare me?, as a single, youngish!, woman walking down my own road, and being told' look, u make me hard', when stood on my own doorstep. Soooo, then on fri night went out for friends birthday and not wearing anything low cut or high cut or dressed particularly girly, yes, slightly figure hugging, my now slimmer figure but perfectly respectable! I got dropped off outside my house when my NEXT DOOR NEIGHBOUR was outside so said hello and tried to be polite while keeping small talk to absolute mnimum, he was saying something about where is my child and do u want a drink etc. I was bit drunk but assured him had more than enough, he was drunk, it was half 2 in am but you would think u dont need walking from car to front door! He tried to hug and kiss me several times on my doorstep!! so sureal, his wife and 5 kids in the house,- i am his neighbour!!! can only assume he not used to drinking that much and didnt know what he was doing, or hopefully remember! I dont want to make it a big issue and involve his wife as maybe a stupid moment of madness, that I wanna forget, and dont really wanna feel like I need to move house but, I am a single white female parent,(a status that doesnt define me or shouldnt belittle me) makes you start to wonder if this translatesin some cultures as being easy prey, or just easy! Had I let them they would have both taken it much further. All I ever wanted to be was friendly and not rude, but makes me wonder if i am walking round with a sign saying 'victim' on me!! I certainly didnt feel like i was and do not generally feel preyed upon but as my baby father and possibly others have victimised me in the past it made me feel like i must bring it upon myself?!, but I honestly think I should be able to feel and be safe walking down my own road after dark as a full grown, competant adult with respect, as should all women, why should anyone think this is acceptable behaviour?? to any woman.The complete and utter disregard  for a fellow humans emotions, and disrespect for me as a woman. walking past my next door neighbours open door made me angry yesterday and prompted me into this regurgitation, and now reading this back, i realise that the overwheling feeling is indeed anger and wholly justified indignation!!?? sorry for the long rant but had to get it out there! thanks for listening.xx