e11en

hi all, i have just split with my long term partner of 4 yrs this yr, i fell preg with A early into the relationship this caused problems as his mum told him to tell me to get rid i never did or never wanted to. 4 months in the pregancy he cheated on me when i found out he packed my stuff n threw me out i went to stay at my mums he found a new partner then wanted to make it work we lived seperate then when A was born he made me move bk in with him with emotional blackmail that we should be a family n he would put me on the morgage. i moved back to the house and his parents bribed him not to or they would never talk to him again, his mother has always had a problem with me to none known reason. then i find out hes cheated again n the girl aprently fell pregant (but she lied) we split again i stayed with a friend again i got brainwashed by him n went back. all of a sudden he started geting ver abusive i have now left him n my job can any one give me any advise on what help i can get please as this time its the end enough is enough. Thanks Ellen 

Posted on: March 16, 2013 - 1:58pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello and welcome to One Space Smile

I wonder what sort of help you are looking for at the moment. I guess finances and housing at first. I have lots of information for you.

You can send emails to our Benefits Expert and Housing Expert by clicking on each blue link

This article (click again!) may also be useful for you.

Did you have any support from Women's Aid around the abusive times?

Posted on: March 16, 2013 - 2:09pm

e11en

thank you :) well i'm not 100%  on what i need to do really i am looking at a house just waiting for the estate to ring back to view it. im claiming child tax n child benifit, would i be able to apply for housing bennifit. iv been to mind groups but nothing one-to-one. 

Posted on: March 16, 2013 - 2:27pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Send an email to our Benefits Expert from the link I gave you above and find out all the details Laughing

Would you like to talk through what happened to you? If so then Women's Aid (click for details) could be helpful

Posted on: March 16, 2013 - 7:19pm