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i am a mother who got kids in care at the momment and going through court .and has done for the last year and not given up yet ...i been throught hell and back..done course ect if you want to know more about what i been through feel free to ask me on here ok
HELLO TO HAZELEYES........
thank u for getting back to me i got 5 kids 10 years to 3 years old and i been put through hell and back ...and i cannot have no contact at all as they last contact i had was a year ago ....but i still fighting the sswokers as they dont do there job at all and i put a compaint about them as well and won it the courts said that i can write to my kids and sswokers are now saying no i it p****** me off so much i going up the wall about it now i got my own support group and i want to get the message put across to there people who got kids in care not to give up at all....and it would be nice if i can put something on here ok so let me no
Hi tonianne24
Welcome to One Space, have you heard of Match Mothers? (Click on the bold) They are a charity who support mothers who are living away from their children.
thank u all i am so glad that i am here if people can give me help i would be great ful as i ended and i dont want to stop now and no going to until my famley got justice and kids are home with me that what i wish for
Did you check out the link that Anna gave you? What happened to the boy that was living with you? Do you mind me asking how old he was?
Hi tonianne24,
I am sorry that your children are not living with you, do you have any contact at all other than letters?
Can I ask if English is a 2nd language for you and if so what is your 1st language?
Do you have any support from anyone, I do hope so xxx
the boy hit my girl who now is 8 years old and live in S and his mum socailwoker told him not to worry..as he still at home but he not just had a go at my girl was 2 years.. at the time i have it in writeing that he did it..but this boys mother who on drugs and drink and she let him get away with everthing...then my oldest girl who was 4 at the time he aslo hit her to the floor at school.......this is why i am trying to get justice and have my kids at home with me i am not givening up at all..as socailwokers now fxxxx up my case and yes i am english...so if people have gone throught this yourself plz tell your story ok
tonianne, i don't understand, you said the boy lived with you, so how is his mother involved in it, and how could her social worker say not to worry as he was still at home? Can I ask where were you when he hit your daughter? Can I also ask where abouts in England you're from?
i am in bristol, have been for 4 years and this boy stay.. at mine for nite ...i was down stairs feding the baby at the time i went up and took him off her then i get told by his mother that i abused him how when i was made show that i love my girl
i am doing a support group in bristol to help to support ouer mothers...
could u get this around this iste if so how?
Right so let us get this clear: you had a boy staying with you and he was upstairs with your daughter and hit her and so you intervened and you were subsequently accused of abusing this boy, although you had your own concerns about his mum and her involvment with drugs and drink. And as a result of these accusations your children were taken into care, is that right?
I moved the other post you made, as this was in the Media section. Have you been in touch with the Family Rights Group? (click the blue link to see the website) They seem the best bet to hear and empathise with you in your present situation. You will also see there are discussion boards on that site, have a look to see if there are any support groups you can join, or others who will team up with you to form a group, which I know is something you feel strongly about.
yes that right ..i been asscued then it got taken to court and there nothing on me at all...i been throught this a year on my own ..and the sswokers will not take to court the boy and famley to court as she done notthing wrong...i feel so stonger about this as it not fair why should a mother who on drugs/drink ect and allowed to keep her kids and there sswokers told her she doing the right thing..i been in touch with the famley rights group /mothers ect and still nothing but my solictor said to be that she happpy of what i am doing and that it made me a stonger person as well i need my story put a cross..and now i work in the community and with famleys ects were there plom them as i done nothing at all..as my kids were clean happy and everthing else you can think then i won the compaint about sswokers threy did not like it..as they put my girl in to fc and then they also beat up my girl as well as she come to concet with a black eye and then..then i ask how did she get that then my support work told me dont worry she fell and hit her head and it was not as i got photos of it and i am taken it ...so far they will lose they jobs soon as it not right at all .......................THAT WHY I AM DOING MY OWN GROUP CALL SUPPORT FOR MUTAL MOTHERS WITH KIDS IN CARE...AND IT MEANS MEET UP AND HAVE A CHAT DO ACTIVES ECT AND HELP THEM TO THE BEST I CAN DO AS IT NOT RIGHT AND THERE NO SUPPORT GROUPS OUT THERE FOR US ..the worst time for me is xmas brithdays as i miss all that i am not alloed to c the kids at all...but there dad can soon i cannot work that one out
THIS IS A SUPPORT GROUP....
for mothers who kids in care and dont c them at all..and it very
wrongly and this support group is on a which is on a wed/ fridays
10.45 untill 12.oo at the greenway center in southmead ...we have
grounds rules as well....and if you want support from others group i can
give u that but cannot give you court help as i not a soilctor but i
can let you no who r the best solictors i had in the past....
so plesase feel free to level this on here on this wesite
my email is .....................................
MODERATOR'S NOTE: Sorry tonianne, we are not permitted by the site rules for you to have your email on here but people can contact you on site if they want to join you, ok? 
I have also amalgamated your posts about your situation and the group on to this thread, please just use this thread to post about it from now on otherwise it gets confusing, and I will have to delete posts elsewhere, to keep things clear for people. Many thanks
Have you had a look at the website that I posted the link to?
well sorry to level email.ok i just want to put my point cross ok..to people
That's fine, I have made this your thread now, for people to get in touch
thank u hun i hope i not upset people on here ..i am getting used to this site 
so a great thank u xx
No it is all sorted now and this is your thread
thank u guys...good moro
Hello tonianne. Welcome along to One Space. I'm sorry your children are in care. How old are they? What sort of visitation are you allowed? Like you say, I'm sure you've been to hell and back, fighting the system I guess. Look forward to chatting and getting to know you. Take care