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freda collins

Hi I am a 37 year old mum of 2 children a son of 6 and a daughter of 11. I live in Coulsdon and am a supply teacher. I am about to be separated and am distraught!!

Posted on: January 6, 2012 - 12:04pm
freda collins

HI i am new to all of this just found out 2 days ago that my 8 month old marrage is to end due to infidelity on my usbands behalf and his lack of being in love with me. I have 2 children a son of six and a half and a daughter who is eleven. I am looking for a support group to possible attend as I am not coping well. I live in Coulsdon and look forward to hearing from people who have come out the other side of this

Posted on: January 6, 2012 - 12:07pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello kathryn jessamy

Welcome to One Space. Just a quick request, if that is your real name please will you change it to a user name for anonymity. You can do this by clicking on My profile (top right of the Home Page) and then the Edit tab and you will see a line for yout user name thanks.

I  am sorry to hear that everything is so difficult at the moment. First of all, email our Local Services expert, (click the blue link) who will look to see what is available in your area.

You say you are not coping well, could you say a bit more? Are you having time off work, are you eating and sleeping reasonably? there is an article here that may help reassure you.

There is lots of friendly support here. and I can direct you to other threads where people are going through similar if you think chatting with them would help?

Posted on: January 6, 2012 - 4:34pm

sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Awww, loads of hugs.  It is such a horrid and difficult time.

Do you have family and friends supporting you? 

Posted on: January 6, 2012 - 8:37pm

littleredhen
DoppleMe

sending you a hug - i am recently separated after 16 years of marriage - its not easy but everyone on here is fab and supportive

 

Posted on: January 6, 2012 - 10:17pm