god some days are lonely
it be nice just to have mates to chat too
3 years i moved last dec for a new start but left all my friends behind now need new ones but it had to meet ppl i have 4 kids but now there with my x not seen them this year x
That's a long time to be separated from your children. Do you live near them now?
Have a look at this website which is for people in your situation.
You could alse see what is in your local area in terms of courses/clubs etc, that is a good way to meet people
thankyou i moved to lincoln
Hi ringy. Welcome along. Wow, that is a long time to have not seen the chlldren. Do you get to speak to them on a regular basis or anything? This is a great site, so please do keep posting, as others will be along during the day and evening.
Hello from me as well.
I'm sorry that you've not seen your children for so long. That must be very difficult leaving.
Hi ringy
Would you consider moving back to the area you used to live? You could be closer to your friends and your children?
it be hard as my x does every think to stop me seeing them
That must be awfully hard for you ringy. Have you consulted a solicitor? On what grounds is he stopping you from seeing them?
i think its because we brought are kids up well and if i met some one new are kids would take to that lady
opps sorry waiting for next cort date to get to see kids
She cannot stop you seeing your children on that basis. As you're waiting on the next court date, does this mean that you've attended court before? If so, what was the result of that one?
the cort are sorting out i want them every other week
Good luck with that. Keep us updated on how it goes.
ok thankyou x
How old are your children? Do you still keep in contact with your old friends?
11 girl 14 boy 16 boy 18 boy no too far away from them x
Sorry to interrupt, but have you moved to be nearer them, or are you quite a distance from them too? Also, on the previous court date, did they not sort out any appropriate times for you to see the children? Also, has a CAFCASS been involved? And finally, what are the childrens' views on the situation, as they would be old enough for the court to take them into account?
All these things are very good points, Garak
Hello ringy
There are plenty of other lone parents on here to share with. How long have you been a single parent? tell us about your children and situation