Murray72
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Hi Everybody, 

I am bracing myself for my first Milestone Birthday since my 21st, I am on 40 on Sunday and feeling a little old, even though I don't usually feel it I am going all Cath Kidstone and flowery and it just is not me. Argggggghhhh help 

I wondered if anyone else has a milestone coming up, or even better how you celebrated or commiserated the event. 

I have no celebratory plans and have arranged to work just to escape the "suprise" party trap.

Look forward to your replies xx

Posted on: April 19, 2012 - 3:35pm
Anna
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Hey Murray72, I am hitting the big 4-oh this year too, my daughter will be 18 too! I have spent the last 18 years wishing for this year and it is finally here, yeehah!

I plan to do as many things as possible. One thing includes having a photoshoot of me and 8 of my closest friends in a black and white landscape frame :)

I always said that if I didn't get married by the time I was 40 I would have a 'Princess for a day' party!! Ha ha, the idea being that if you get married then you get to wear an over the top dress and have everyones attention - and I Want That! Although the hiring of a hall, buying expensive fancy dress, getting music and food, is currently an expense that I can't cover!

I have been considering going to Disneyland Paris as I have never been and always wanted to as a kid and I never managed to get my daughter there either, so that thought is there.

I can't believe you are not going to do anything at all??

Posted on: April 19, 2012 - 4:51pm

Hopeful
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I have decided to make everyone a milestone birthday, ha!!!! I'm worth it!!! I shall hit the magic 46 this year.

Let's see what ideas my not-so-little-anymore people can come up with, huh?

 

 

Posted on: April 19, 2012 - 5:16pm

sparklinglime
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I'm 50 in August.  My friend and her friend (my new friend after meeting her at my friend's 60th) will be coming to stay in a local Travelodge for a few days.  They want a 'girlie' lunch at some point, but they will be joining me and the children at the local pub for a birthday tea.  Nothing different to the last few years really. 

I'm trying to decide what to buy myself though.  I've been watching claranets on ebay, as I always wanted to play one!  Or perhaps a Kindle as I know I won't be reading anymore college books once these two essays are gone!

 

Posted on: April 20, 2012 - 12:08am

Louise
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I agree with Hopeful. Every birthday is a milestone, and a chance to pat ourselves on the back.

Glad you are looking at a nice celebration, sparkling Wink

Posted on: April 20, 2012 - 8:37am

Sally W
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I have not had any milestone birthdays myself for a while, Murray72 you share a birthday with my eldest daughter, it was her 13th Birthday on Sunday, she wanted chinese food and a lemon cake Smile

 

Posted on: April 23, 2012 - 10:33am

Anna
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Happy Belated birthday Murray72!! Smile

I just found this quote for you and I love it  Laughing

40 is the old age of youth; 50 is the youth of old age Kiss

Did you have a good day?? What did you get up to?

Sally, I hope your new teenager had a good day too!

Posted on: April 23, 2012 - 11:17am

Murray72
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I Love that quote thank you Anna. I had an amazing day and felt like it was a watershed for me, after my 30's been difficult it is great to look to the future knowing the bad stuff is behind me, I was spoilt by my Son's and enjoyed family time, I am not a party type of person and was dreading having one sprung on me. Phew I escaped.

Sally, Happy Birthday to your 13 year old, I had a lovely chinese meal too my Mum even made me a choc cake ha ha I enjoyed every bite.

Life has only just begun for me woohoo

 

Posted on: April 23, 2012 - 3:41pm

Anna
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Woo hoo, you go girl!! Glad you had a lovely day.

I felt the same relief as you are describing when I hit 30, I had friends who were bemoaning the age and I was 'Hooray - thank god thats over - the rest of my life is mine Cool'

 

Posted on: April 23, 2012 - 3:45pm

sparklinglime
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I'm glad you had a lovely birthday Murray72

Posted on: April 24, 2012 - 9:45am