Hi there, I am a 33 years old single mom who moved to London from the US after my daughter's father decided to have another family when she was 27 days old. Finally after 3 years since she is born I am fighting with the us' court system to get child support. My Ex has declined that he ever knew me and that his daughter is his. His name is on her birth certificate and I have all legal documents possible proving that he is a biological dad. I am so glad that my princees does not know what is going on because I would be double devastated...
Hi Anileve2308
Welcome!
It can be very frustrating to go through a legal process, usually takes such a long time, and I understand that you feel upset on your daughter's behalf. I would urge you not to let this mar your happiness in other respects, though.....How are you doing in other ways? Have you made some friends in London? Are you planning for your little girl to go to nursery soon-ish?
Good morning Louise,
Yes, she will be starting at the beginning of July. I have not made any friends since I have became a workaholic lately, I guess to forget about all the mess that I'm going through. I would love to meet other sole parents to feel like I am not the only one...
regards
ps Im loving this weather today:))
Yes, it is nice here in Yorkshire too :-)
Once your daughter starts nursery there will be more opportunties to met other parents, and once the school playground run starts....lots of potential new associates!
Hope you have some nice plans for the weekend?
good morning,
only work this weekend, my Precious is coming back in a couple of weeks. I can not wait to have her close.
Hello Anileve2308
Where is your daughter at the moment?
she is with her grandparents in their country
Aw that is nice for her to have some time with them, bet you can't wait to cuddle her again, though!
im so excited!!!! I really appreciate this website, this is so cool. It is already helping me as I thought I was odd....
There are lots of us out here, Anileve2308 and we all help each other along.
Hi Anileve2308
Will your ex have to do a blood test to ascertain paternity? Do you have to go to America when it goes to Court?
It must be lovely knowing that your daughter is having a happy time with (I am presuming) your parents. I hope you have managed to find a bit of fun time for yourself during your childfree period?
Your message made me laugh, in a good way, when you said you 'thought you were odd'! I am glad that we are making you feel a bit more normal!
Have a look at Your Local and see if there is any events going on in your area, we try and identify activities for single parents, so hopefully you might meet other sole parents there.
Hello again
I did find a group in Ealing that you might like, so do have a look in Your Local as I have posted the details there!
Hey, my apologies to everyone from me writing in a wrong window...
I have an update from my ex - because he is all the sudden emailing me - please note that he stated in court last week that we never met (LOL).
He is basically telling me how terrible I am (pour evil etc) and that he has not contacted his daughter in nearly 3 years because I had said he could not until he is with another woman!!!!!!!!!!!! God punish me please if I ever said that to this ******
I meant PURE Evil:)
Oh dear, Anileve, it would be funny if it was not so terrible, especially as he has "never met you"
How are you feeling?
good morning,
im good, how are you?
OK thanks, I was wondering if you were Ok after that message from your ex.
im ok, trying not to think too much about it. he has had nearly 3 years to contact me and never did until now. My princess is getting so clever. Yesterday she told her great grandma to change her tone because she did not like it. My grandma was surprised as she did not expect something like that from my little one...
Ah they grow up so fast, we have to be one step ahead of them, all the time
Hi Anileve2308
Its funny how our ex's can twist our words to what they need them to be! I am glad that it has not affected you too much though. Has you ex been saying anything other than what an terrible person you are? Do you think he is beginning to get a little anxious over the court situation?
You little one sounds like a little star! 
Hi there, I am a 33 years old single mom who moved to London from the US after my daughter's father decided to have another family when she was 27 days old. Finally after 3 years since she is born I am fighting with the us' court system to get child support. My Ex has declined that he ever knew me and that his daughter is his. His name is on her birth certificate and I have all legal documents possible proving that he is a biological dad. I am so glad that my princees does not know what is going on because I would be double devastated...