tonir01

Hi can anyone relate to this subject, my husband recently left me for another woman, and he has mentally abused me for four years I believe he has narcissism disorder, these are very dangerous people and cause severe mentall stress and should be stopped somehow in doing so.

 

Has anyone else suffered at the hands of this disorder

Posted on: July 3, 2014 - 8:14am
Immi
DoppleMe

Sorry to hear you've had such a hard time. I've been in relationships with people like this before and yes, the stress is unreal.  Sending hugs and support. x

Posted on: July 3, 2014 - 10:44am

Skyflower
DoppleMe

Hi there,

I can relate to it, though I think my ex was a sociopath rather then a narcissist, but it is difficult to put them in boxes exactly, is there any way we can help you cope with the aftermath ? 

(((hug)))

Posted on: July 15, 2014 - 9:29pm

Bubblegum
DoppleMe

I can relate to it too! My wife had Borederline Personality disorder, she probably still does, I wouldn't know as I've not seen her for quite a few years, which is a good thing : )

I had a look and both narcissist and sociopath at wikipedia and they both look familiar in places.

Sometimes when I think back to the 'bad old days' I get this familiar panicy, stressy feeling inside, even now nearly ten years on, I have the faint taste of it now typing this.

We are in such a better place now : )

Posted on: July 17, 2014 - 8:06am

Immi
DoppleMe

Totally relate to that bubblegum. When I thought I saw my ex (not the husband, the guy I was seeing shortly after) in the street the other day I thought I was going to be sick with anxiety. It all just comes flooding back!

Posted on: July 17, 2014 - 1:31pm

Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello tonir01

Good to see you. What support are you getting with this, have you had some counselling, and is the abuse continuing? I am wondering if he sees your little one?

Posted on: July 19, 2014 - 7:55am

bluedaisy

i defo know what your talking about they play with your head and twist things... its horrible and im glad am out of it and i bet you are?

Posted on: August 27, 2014 - 7:23pm