Hello everyone, I am currently 31 weeks pregnant - and recently became a single parent - long story but involves lies and betrayal... Very upsettin time but just wanna say hiya, and wondered if i could join as my bubs isnt here yet, but would appreciate joining and chattin away...
Thanx
Hi Godsgift
Sorry to hear the news. Hope you are o.k. You have found a good site here. Look forward to the chit chat.
Sparklinglime - thankyou very much its appreciated - oh i cannot wait!! got a gorgeous baby boy arriving into my life soon - kinda upsets me things havent turned out how i wanted it to - but i know ill give my son everything in my power... I am currently out of uni (im 22 yrs old)
Wayne - thankyou very much - ive been having a browse around and everyone does seem friendly although the site is a lil confusing at the moment.. but im sure i will get the hang of things.
hello godsgift
You are very welcome here and there are only a few short weeks till your baby is born, how exciting! I know this is not how you envisaged it but there will be a lot of joy to come. Do you have any suuport from family at all? Are you in contact with your son's father?
There is lots on the site and the best way to find out all about it is to have a look around for yourself although if you click here you can go straight to the chit chat section, where we share our good and bad times througout the day and evening.
Look forward to getting to know you
Hi Godsgift.
A baby boy that sounds exciting .I have learned from people here to put yourself and baby boy 1st at the moment. This is something i will be doing from now on with my DD she is 2.
Hiya, I just had a click and that chit chat section is good good.. thanx alot for the link. I live with my mum and stepdad and will untill baby is here - mum reckons itll do me good to have her support untill i am fully settled - this is my first child so im very anxious and nervous etc... Family support only my mum but she's ace!!! We are in contact but all he ever does is give me grief, he hasnt supported me financially, he isnt here to support me emotionally (obvo not now as we not together but before we broke up was never here either) he claims he might nt make it to the birth, oh and hes already said on one occasion that he might not sign birth certificate? I mean come on!!!!
I want him to have access, and i want him to bond with him - i dont wanna push him out but the more he acts like someone who wants to treat me like the dirt the more i really dont wanna give him anything! i think ive been good till now and im slowly gettin fed up with the texts messages, and the constant thing of him saying he is 'trying.' i dont need people in my sons life who will try and i need people who will do!!
Wayne - thankyou, best surprise ive ever had in my life trus me.... i am soooo looking forward to being his mum, i just wanna see him now lol.. and hold him.. got all his stuff ready - buying pram this weekend.. so excited :-) lol...
Awwww lil girl, thats really nice, its so rewarding having children isnt it? i mean i only have this one in the oven (lol) but i have a few friends who are single parents and they say even though its hard that they find it so rewarding!
Not too much looking forward to the sleepless nights but hey i know ill love it!!!
Hi Godsgift
Glad you have the support of your mum that is good and will be helpful in the future. It sounds like you are having fun and games with your OH. Just think of you and your baby boy 1st . It is the best feeling ever having a little one that only wants to be with you. It is hard work but it sounds like your mum wants to share it with you which is nice. Everything they do will make you laugh it is the best feeling.
You will get through the sleepness nights it does get easier as they get older. The 1st two weeks i hardly slept as between feeds i would just sit up and watch DD as you can not take your eyes off the little ones as you dont want to miss a thing.
Wayne - Hiya, well yes it is all fun and games, but its gettin me down... WOW i cant imagine wanting to sleep when he is here either - im gonna be mesmerised by him, all i can think about right now is holding him - i get mesmerised now whenever he moves or i feel him kick i love it! The whole experience (bar the rubbish) is amazing!!
Hi godsgift. Welcome to you and baby bump. Congratulations.
It's not how you thought it would turn out, but you will be just fine. Great that you have your Mum to support you too. Take all the help you can.
I had to laugh at your post above, where you say you can't imagine wanting to sleep when the baby arrives. I was so like that, but trust me, you'll sleep hehe.
Looking forward to getting to know you. Hope you're getting as much rest as you can, (you're going need your energy soon, lol)
Take care
Alison
x
Hi Godsgift
I know its hard but try not let him get you down . I have had good and bad days but like everyone will tell you just think of the good days . Put you and baby boy 1st. Time is a great thing everything gets better intime . I struggled at 1st when people said this to me but I can see now that they were right. Things do get better intime.
Stay warm today.
HI, good luck to you : ) having kids is wonderful experience, bit of a shock, probably different for men as it's just all of a sudden there, I suppose women are more aware seeing as the baby has been growing inside, but I wouldn't know as I'm not one, I kind of wish I could have experienced that though, just to know.
The nurses had to pry my son from my hands and put him in his cot thing after he'd been born : )
Hello godsgift
Welcome and hope you are making friends.
Whoooooooo a new baby bless bet you carnt wait dont know if it will let you but have you any names in mind for you baby boy.
Your going to have a massive change in your life and just enjoy it the birth of a baby is magical.
I have three little angels who are 15 11 and 8 and they keep me busy.
Stuart
Hiya everyone - sorry been a few days, Everyone on this site is so nice, and friendly.. im glad i joined - still finding it difficult to navigate myself around but im sure i will get used to it.
Yup I am sooooooooo excited i really cannot express it in words, trust me..lol..
Just looking forward to being a mum and raising my son, I do have names yh, his dad picked the name months ago (when we were on good terms) so will stick to that as i love the name aswell.
Hi Godsgift
Another day closer to holding baby boy,how's things going at the moment
Hi godsgift
Great to see you here - although sorry you've been through such sadness.
The next few weeks will fly by for you.
Looking forward to getting to know you