Quickie Divorce

I am not sure if he will agree, but he has said that if I start involving solicitors things will get very nasty and it will open a can of worms which I don't want to get into. I am really worried that he might have got me to sign something in the past which possibly wasn't above board. I have heard of women being jailed because of that sort of thing. I don't know if it is the case but my parents have never trusted him. I am so frightened, I will top myself before suffering the shame of appearing in court.

How will it be good for my children if their mother is in prison. Their dad would get them anyway so it won't make any difference whether I'm alive or not. Their dad will stay abroad to avoid prosecution,he can easily get them out there with him. If I end up in jail my life will be over.

In the last 4 years, I have been able to stand up to him a bit more, but before that he would bring in forms and tell me to sign them, when I asked what they were for and try to read them he would say Oh its an insurance or pension I am taking out for you,. He bought a few properties on Interest Only, Buy to Let Mortgages, which he rented out. As far as I know, I jointly own one of these properties. It is now in negative equity and I have never received any of the rent from it. It goes into an account he uses for his rented properties and he claims all the money is swallowed up by mortgage repayments, repairs and other expenses incurred. My worry is that I could have signed for other properties, he has bought and sold a few over the years. I really don't know what has gone on. He says he has no cash, he has'nt worked for 5 years, and we had been living abroad for that time. We lived off savings and money he got from selling a property, but now he claims all that money has gone. He is still living abroad in a property in joint names. It is because of these two properties I cannot get any benefit. I know I have assets, but cannot raise money from them in a day. How am I expected to feed and clothe my children.

My mother's partner has now written to local council to say I have to leave theirs within the month, as he cannot cope with the overcrowding and the noise the children make. Me being here is also causing a rift between them. I am so worried about what will happen to me and children. Sorry this is so garbled but I am completely mixed up.