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well i knew this day would happen but i guess it's ony of those things you never wish it would! :( my son received his first red card at school today :'( and he was heart broken. (for those of you that might read this and haven't read other posts by me, school dose a red card green card behaviour sistum green to reward good behaviour and red the oppersit!) but what happend was that it was tidy up time at school and there was one child that wasn't helping, so my son tried to get him to help and ended up bashing that childs head on the door. It didn't help me the fact that he was screaming his head off sayin he dosen't want a red card and his teacher taking him out the room by his arm to have a word with him, so i had to force my self not to meet his eye and also too root my self to the spot! and not follow what i really wanted to do which was to grab him and run away with him! (i'm now cryin writing this) :'( it really wasn't nice, Then i had all the children in his class coming up to me saying your boy's been naughty (yes they call him my boy! hehe!) and once 1 had started that was it bombarded by 10 girls! your boy's been naughty then the next, and the next, and the next so on till i said Look I know he's been naughty, but it's not up to you to tell me, now can you carry on with what you were doing please! Then another teacher came in to the room and sorted them all out and got them in to the other class room and the teacher with my son came in and we had a talk!
He owned up to what he had done and had said sorry to the other lad and i took him out his room so he could get a drink. But now my son's in the RED book in the head teachers room :( I know it's a natural thing, one of these things that's bound to happen to 90% of children at least once in there school life, but to see his little face totally and utterly heart broken :( it's just not something i could have done with seeing :( .... but then at the same time i was able to deal with it as was in school just finished the readers and so we didn't have to say too much about it on the way home and we'v not mentioned it since! altho i did tell him that he dosen't have to tell grandma and grandad about it!!! so i'm not goin to say any more about it to him so it wont be on his mind!
I really hope he's learnt from it and it will be his first and only red card in his school life!
Awww hatz. Loads of hugs.
Do enjoy the weekend though.
yeh sure was harder cuz the girls there ... also couldn't leave the room 1 cuz there was no teacher in there, and 2 cuz if he saw me he'd of come running!! but yes he's deffently learnt from it! :( :)
today so far were doing some crafty things my sis sent my son some cars to decorate so we'v been doin that and he's now just sitting and putting the sparkley bits on them! so left him to do that while i jumped on line!!!! lol goin to go swimmin later after dinner some point then other than that see how much money i have in the bank as we ran out of cat litter last night so ended up using shreaded news paper lol so hope i can still get the tenner out that i left my self after i had an email from paypal saying they'v taken the money the needed for ebay fees!!! thankfully i had £5:50 in my paypal so it should have only taken £2 out of my bank!!! but there we go! ...... well my son's just handed me the car that he was decorating and has written all over the back of it ... To mum luf from c**! :D he just wrote it out with out asking how to spell anything and only lil mistake he's made is the luf instead of Love! :D but it's how he says it so it's how he'll spell it! :D hehe! cuteness!
right my belly is talkin to me! so goin to grab something to eat and get dressed! (can you tell parents arnt about! haha!!!! 10:31 and still not dressed! haha) once in a while! :D
catch you's laters x
ohhh sweetie , your son tried to help some1 and to me that is important , yes a little booboo came out of that but he did say he was sorry , and boys will be boys. My step son had ADD and i was called in every week but i didnt punish him when i knew it wasnt his fault nor did his father. Sometimes in life whether you`re a child or an adult you try to help and it turns out the other way.your little boy is an amazing litle man !!
hope you guys will have a fantastic weekend :D xx
aww thanks mrspj :) that's put an extra smile on my face tonight! :D
we didn't end up goin swimming today but instead decided we'll do some cooking! so went down town checked the bank acount and had shock of my life! :O :D lets put it this way .... payed for my holiday that last looming £50, took £20 out for shopping, and still got some left to pay for my son's dinners AND photos! :D i have to be honest i don't know where the extra money has come from cuz the bank hasn't had a receipt roll in it's sistum for 3 weeks now :( so i cant see what's gone in and when!! but to have that money in there has really made my weekend! (i know money dosen't make the world go round, but it sure dose help when you'v got payments to make and due dates to make them by!!!) but any ways :) we ended up cooking, my son had watched a kids cookery prog on cbeebees and said that he wanted to make what she made which was cherry short bread biscuits! :D so i grabbed the receipe off the page and found i only needed to get the glace cherry's which was a shock cuz usely when we do cooking we have to get EVERYTHING on the list! lol my son had also said he wanted pie, mash and carrots for tea so we had puff pastry in the fridge just needed to get the filling so that was mushroom and veg chicken peices (bout the only time i eat "pretend" meat!) and a tin of mushroom soup which when was made tasted YUMMY! :D monster was in a REALLY helpfull mood so got him to chop the mushrooms up for me which he did a really amazing job!!!!
now he's in bed, holiday is payed for just got to do dinner money payment and i'm done for the night! :D so glad i'v done the last payment! :D that was the big worry on my head had to be done by monday and was worried it wouldn't have got there in time!
I am sure he has learned from it, hatz. I do think it is harder for you as you work at the school and can see it first hand, also a queue of girls telling you all about it does not help!
Hope you can have a good weekend together