hiya, just less than a week ago i got dumped by txt of my fiance we live togther and been with each other for nearly 5 years and out of the blue he decided he didnt love me anymore and that it was over we have a one year old son and a 6yr old from a previous realtionship who he calls daddy as he dosent know his real dad, now hes refusing to leave home , the fact is we work togther so now i mite have to leave work as i cant work with him or around the same people anymore, he has left me in so much mess and dont even know how to tell the kids, i just want him to move out so that i can move on,
Hi kittycat1234
Welcome to One Space.
What an awkward situation and just to send a text message! Sounds top me like someone did not want to face up to telling you face to face.
At the moment, just say to the children that daddy is at work, as you need to be clear on what is happening first. Little angel has given you the grat idea of having a word with the boss at work. I would also recommend that you get some legal advice about the house...contact our Legal Expert by clicking here.
Aw Kittycat, Welcome to the site, Im sure you will get some good advise on here. What an awful situation you are in. How horrible of him to do that to you and the kids. My heart goes out to you. It is such a difficult one and he is being cruel by insisting on not moving out.Who does the house belong to? Can you not just pack his things and put them outside?
Maybe try having a word with your mananger at work and explain the situation and see if you could be moved to a different site - depending how big the company is.
The parenting specialist can give you some great advice on telling the kids.
Big hugs x
I do hope it turns out ok for you x