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Hi Guys, just wanted to get some advice! court case as been closed now about leaving my abusive partner...he had the chance to see his daughter last month through a contact center but no further response from his solicitors. now today i have received a letter from cafcass! which i am really confused as to why i have received it as there has not been further disagreements..
should i speak to my solicitor 1st or does it not matter?
I would ask CAFCASS first and then if they say there is something ongoing, THEN go back to your solicitor
ok i will do that 1st thing... thanks :-)
hope you are ok ?
hi guys,
i rang cafcass today and they told me that the dad had sent in an application..now i dont understand why he would as i didnt deny access for him to see his child! he is the one who didnt make an appointment with the contact center...so now i have to go court :-(
hi willow hugs sent is it his way to get back at you by doing this , in away he didnt want the contact centre? its another way for him to still take control. make sure when you go that you put forward that you have not denied him seeing the child he just never showed up? hope you are ok
Hi willow, so now at least you know. I agree with shaz5, he didn't like the idea of a contact centre. Now are you going to get some legal advice next?
hi guys...yer i do think it is very much the case of him finding new ways to try and get control! i will be saying that i never denied him seeing her....i have been trying to get ahold of my solicitor for a few days now and no luck! but i'll keep trying...
thanks guys for your advice will keep you updated x
Hi willow, abusive ex partners will use the courts and cafcass to continue to harrass you, keep reminding yourself of this.
Is he doing it to see his daughter or is it just to keep causing trouble and disturbance. I hope that you managed to get hold of your solicitor.
hi Anna,
i have managed to get ahold of my solicitor and she thinks this could have been done at the start of the case...it just took this long (5months)...but cafcass said the application was made on the 2nd of this month so i do think your right Anna i think he wants so cause hassle!
my solicitor has said nothing will be done now till after the new year :-(
Hi willow
Hold on to your hat and don't let his actions spoil your Christmas 
no i wont let him spoil my christmas louise :-)
Hi willow
How was your Christmas ?
Hi willow
How about getting in touch with CAFCASS and explaining the court case is closed and asking whether there is a new legal action they are concerned with.