Hi all,
My name is I and I am a very newly single mother of my two lovely boys, J (5) and C (2). My husband and I are unsure as to whether our separation will be permanent - we love each other very much still but the marriage has not been working for a long time - and I am finding it very hard to adjust to how things are now.
Found this site via google and I was hoping to be able to meet some other mums in my situation. I know I'm not the first single parent in the world and I certainly won't be the last, but sometimes it does feel that way!
Anyway, it's nice to meet you all.
Hi and welcome from me toooo! I will pop over to Relationships and talk to you there shortly 
Welcome to One Space, sorry to hear you are going through a rough time, if you read some of the threads you will see there are plenty of us on various stages of the single parent journey. You must feel in a bit of a limbo as you both consider whether to separate permanently or not.
You might find this video helpful, click to see. It gives some perspectives on the changes you are contemplating.
I see that you have written a longer post in the Relationships section so will answer that more fully