I found this, someone was asking for advice and this is the responce they got.. Very good I thought, and it touched a chord in me for my own situation with my X : )
It can be found here.
Posted on: June 12, 2010 - 8:13am
You lot keep going on about that book, and so I have decided to get it, I just purchased it on eBay for £2.65 : )
Thanx : )
Posted on: June 12, 2010 - 9:00am
That is an interesting piece Bubblegum, and certainly true.
Posted on: June 12, 2010 - 11:44am
Parenting specialist
Hooray! Bubblegum has bought the book!!!!!
Posted on: June 12, 2010 - 4:22pm
Parenting specialist
Hiya, thanks for that bubblegum. Straight talking is essential when you are in love and confused with an addict.
I hope you enjoy the book, I look forward to feedback :)
Posted on: June 18, 2010 - 4:45pm
That's tough talk Bubblegum but very true. That book I am always talking about ("Are you the one for me?") has a section on this too and says that the other person will always put their drug (or drinking or gambling) before their partner and just to steer clear. It's not always that simple, of course so that link is very helpful.