:lol: :lol: yes guys!!!!!!
Glad you have ordered that book sadsy. I found it very informative and helpful
:lol: Yes I did realise it was a joke, it sounded like those Batty Books, do you remember they used to list them in The Beano? things like "Broken Window by Eva Brick?
The book I suggested will not try to make you be anyone else, completely the opposite, it asks you to value yourself and what you really, really want and not to settle for anything (anyone?) that does not come up to scratch.
Join the club :D
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"Broken Window by Eva Brick"
I love that!
sy
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No come on, guys, you both derserve someone wonderful :D
re Batty Books, has anyone got any more? No rude ones though!
:lol: Very good! How about " Nosy neighbour" by Dora Jar ?
They're brilliant!
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-225...
I'd hate to think what my score would be!! :D
OOOOOOH I am glad you are both reading the book! ;)
heh heh Bec :lol:
:lol: woo-hoo, Bec has spotted the code!
Very clever!!!
Hi Bec
What a fantastic list! All those things are possible and quite normal. If we can offer all of the above why shouldn't we expect prospective partners to be able to also??
I have just popped over to Amazon and ordered the book too!!
Hi Bec
Glad the book was so helpful. it is one of my all-time favourites :D Are you going to make that wish-list then?
Hello sadsy
The book might be better further down the line, as bec says. or you might just decide to stick to cars ;) As for the controlling thing, I know that it really upset you when Louise was saying that. It does not mean that it was true! so don't be scared. Sorry to hear you have been having a rotten time. Did you get your bike ride?
I can't wait to read this marvellous book!
Sadsy if when reading the book it makes you think 'oh my god' I am really controlling, that can only be a good thing eh? Like Bec said it made her realise that she had acted like a victim and this realisation has meant that she can make changes. If you are controlling, then this book gives you the chance to change your ways. No one thing is any worse than the other. Its about finding out who we really are and what our patterns are and making those changes and having a more fulfilling life.
PLEASE NOTE: I am not saying you are controlling at all, but you have questioned it in a few posts here and maybe you are seeing something about yourself you have not yet realised. (Or maybe it is just something that your ex said and it has made you really soul search yourself). We all learn to control situations in our own way, it is human nature. I guess as adults we have to learn whether it is an effective or nice way of being.
Sy please do not think I am having a go and I hope that you are having a better day and can receive what I say objectively and not personally. How is your day anyway? Did you go out on your bike last night?
Hi Sy
Please don't apologise. You are having a down day, and we've all had our share of them. You are such a kind person, and I think you are being too hard on yourself at the moment. Sounds like good news on the job front. Will keep my fingers crossed for you. Understandable about worrying about new relationship. Just relax, be yourself and most importantly enjoy!!!!!
Take care
Alison
x :)
Hi Sy
Being on pc this afternoon has certainly taken my mind off things. You have made me smile with your posts, mad, mad, crazy guy. Hope you find your papers, phone, and don't forget the shopping!!!!! Congrats by the way
Sending hugs to you too.
Alison
x :)
Very sensible! It now means you can fill your belly with delicious healthy food for you and your children, rather than become couch potato and get square eyes!!!
Well done you! And it didn't make a too bigger dent in your pocket!
Hi sadsy, three hail mary's then.............
Dont let it sit there and stare at you anymore, you get it out and play with it!
After all that you have been through the last few months you deserve a new toy, enjoy setting it up!
Did you get a stand with it, or do you have a surface big enough for it?
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Its the little things eh?
Enjoy your tray!
I got one on the wall in the living room. I have a surround system too.
I sit in the kitchen though and never watch it... Why? I hear you ask.
I saved up for a big load washing machine and dryer. Then I heard of family fund and applied for a grant, as my son has special needs, and most days I have to wash bedding. I kept saving while I waited to hear.
Got a grant. Hurrah! Had to use a bit of savings to get the machines I wanted.
My eldest boy was going through his crisis at the time, and he was honestly so sad and angry with life, and kept moidering on about teles - his best friend who had moved into a big house now had one (far bigger - 48" or something like that!), while we were doing the opposite. So, went to Pets at Home with my daughter for guinea pig food, looked at Curry's went in and bought the tele, wall thing, surround sound and insurance. I asked if they would 'do a Dom', but they didn't. However, they gave me a very good package, and I had the money. So I bought it. We walked into Curry's at 7.45pm. Lovely sales men :D
That was a Wednesday, or there abouts. My son dislocated his knee on the Friday...
... Then the alternator went on the Renault. It cost more than the ruddy tele and stuff did. I wept. The Renualt had had the new engine in 8 months earlier.
So that's why I don't often watch the big tele, and watch the little portable in the kitchen instead.
Enjoy the tele Sy. You all will, I'm sure.
Yes, bad association.... :D
Excellent list. :)
That's a good list Bec. :D