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facts are i dont want them to be taught religion in school i will leave it at that yes we have a bitter relationship as her tactics in court didnt work and judge ordered my joint custody as she knew what mother was like ans saw right threw her.
my kids are not allowed to talk about me or have a picture of me there house, she tried to get them to call her boyfriend dad.
got social services child protection on me and i said that was unforgivable.
your right we both dont think very much of each other and in a few years if it dosent stop i will be going for full residence
It's very difficult when things are not good between parents
im sure they know that you are their dad and good dads can not be replaced.
just out of interest do they have a picture of their mum at your home?
yes they have a picture of them in house
also i have picture in albums too.
i really feel for those kids who will grow up knowing there mummy could not stop putting down there dad.
as for full residency i really shouldnt have a problem getting it. i havent gone for it as i want my kids to have a relationship with there mummy but if she want to keep putting spanner in works and try reverse a shared residence aggrement with me then thats fine i have always put money aside for court just in case
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Ok everyone remember were ment to be supporting each other here
we are all grown ups and have kids and are single parents
I think as long as we do best for our children we can sleep well at night x
kiera my kids askeif when I was getting a new prince ;) not sure if there's one on uniform datIng ?
il comment on another thread hun
I hate this site when it won't let me edit it grrrrr ;(
talk soon Hun x
Can we request a personal message option on this sight please?
Half my edit icons are not there
When I click on ones that are I'm told I have assess denied? Eh ?
Why's it just me?
cant u send personal messages on this site
Nope
You carnt edit either if your names I'm doing this ;)
Yes, I so don't understand why you cannot edit, IDT, the techies haven't found a reason either and I think the best suggestion was the browser you use but I don't know about these things.
I have edited and removed some posts from this thread as it was becoming personal and this is unacceptable within the forum rules, much as I respect the opinions of all concerned and totally understand everyone's viewpoint. I would echo what IDT says:
Ok everyone remember we're meant to be supporting each other here
we are all grown ups and have kids and are single parents
That is what we are here for, pure and simple.
So can we request personal messages for uses on this site??
I donut think its my browser
something not right
We have had lots of discussions about personal message facilities, IDT....and there are several issues. Obviously cost is one but another is that the purpose of the board is support and information, which when public is then available for everyone (lots more people get help from the boards just by reading as well as by posting) Another issue, which has just been illustrated by this thread, above, is that there is a danger of personal conflicts and disagreements and it would be difficult to monitor that if it was not in the public domain.
Yes I agree a thread provides people information etc by reading I feel it wouldn't change that but it would provide people maybe me and Kiera for example a chance to chat and be more open, we'd support each other in that way i mean there's things I don't post about.
you can create a kind of friendship online and that's a great thing.
well any one sending anything offer pm's would be reported Ian's possibly banned I'm sure members wouldn't risk that we love one space ;)
Sorry Kiera I was just using you as an exasaying any two people can defund connections online to support on an other x
* example arrrr
We get what you mean IDT!! 
We have discussed this many a time since One Space has been live, as we can see friendships form and know how important it is as single parents to have a supportive network, however alongside the reasons Louise gave above is that often people are vulnerable when they first visit the site and we feel it is imperative to protect them and their anonymity.
We hope you understand and thank you for saying that you love One Space, its comments like that that make it all feel worthwhile 
Your welcome Anna ;)
i do completely understand what you say about being vulnerable believe me i do.
i was asked today by a professional if I use any online services I of course recommended you ;) she seas impressed and didn't about your online freedom program :-o so if you get incredibly busy over the next month ;) think of me
your so brill though I hope you didn't mind x
Aww keep up the good work IDT, its good to hear that you are out there singing our praises! If we had gold stars I would give you one! 
hi im doin this its ok use me as much as u like on ere lol, well my sons shoulder as cum out again,his grandad takin him hospital he was lashin out as his younger brother,ive bin out to my younger brothers school to see his new form teacher, aw cant believe he b startin big schoolx
Ahh thankyou I;) im sure we could talk all day ... We'd get nothing done just chatting about everything lol
gosh you got it all going on ! Hope his shoulder is sorted out without stress!
Its hard when your on your own and things happen its twice now my sons had fit at around three o clock iv got no one to pick up my others so today I had to do after school club etc but schools good to us ;) x
well said im doin this, u said it in nice way, i didnt lolx