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Glad you've got your boy 'back'. They're a bit like the weather aren't they? Very changeable lol. I would say to try and stay off your foot, but you can't very well do that if you're also working, plus the school run. Do you still have crutches? Have a good day.
nah! lol i was a good girl and sent them back! haha! tryin to stay off it as much as i can but i'v got to go do the washin up in a moment, and i'v just helped me mum with the new garden set, and i'v walked up to and back from school and i'v got to go there again and walk around the field for lunch break work!!!!!!! lol so tryin to stay off it altho it's not workin at all! haha! so will just see!
any ways! i'v got a very boring date with the sink, water, soap and pots to go to! lol so will catch yous later x
Don't you just hate those dates hehehe
Oh there the best (cough cough) dates in the world! ... least you don't get a bloke moaning at you haha!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry to all the blokes that do actuallt get on and do things with out moaning!!!!!!) hehe!
well i made it round the feild at school but by the end of it i was in AGONY :( one the dinner ladies said that i looked pail too so it must have been showing! even the depty head gave me a look as if to say you all right?! but as always i put it all off and say yup am ok thanks! lol but that's me! lol who i am and what i'm like! lol
i'm sat here now with my foot up on my son's chair resting it! on the walk home i had really bad pins and needles in it, so not only was it hurting i couldn't walk easily on it cuz of the pins and needles! Grrrrrrrrrr! i may win one day! lol
right time for 60min make over :D whoop! :D
Hi hatz
Sounds as if you need a whole day's rest with the foot, almost impossible with your son....could someone else take him to school and you have a day off work tomorrow?
probably but i need the money atm! :( got the rest of my holiday to pay and i have the feeling i'v got to ask someone for a loan as it's due on the 23rd £150 left to pay and i'v got 16p to my name at moment :( so am in need of the money!! i know i should think of my health more than money but it's not goin in my direction at the moment so i'v just got to get on with it!
Perhaps you should have an x-ray hatz, to determine exactly what it is that you've done!
I hope you're able to keep your foot up for a while hatz. Have you still got the crutches? After the injuries here, we kept the crutches as the hospital won't take them back - and they've come in very useful.
nah they went back ages ago!? lol if it's still bad by the weekend i'll pop down! lol see what they say but most likely sprain/twisted! lol pulled ligaments! (how many times have i done my ankle in to actually know what i'v probably done to it! haha)
well i'v just done young mans party invites as he's come home with one on 12th June so i thought i'd best get mine done and sorted so other's dont come up with the same date as me! lol (will just be my luck!!!!) i'v decided to move to the park in town as my mum said there's no toilet fascillities down the other one! and is at the one in town (well there in the leicsure centre!) so will be better for kids! going to ask one of my friends to come help me with the games as she's trained in that sort of thing and is VERY good with kids! so goin to see if she can book it off work and i'll give her a little bit for helpin me out! then theres just the planning as to what to do! lol it's goin to be a games party so goin to have foot ball, races, catching games and the such that 4/5 yr olds can do and we'll have little meddles for them all! (make it easy everyone wins!) then will have a picnic to finish off with! so i just hope and pray for GOOD WEATHER! or we will have to come up with something with in the week or so before to be inside!!!! (which i know a good hall just up the road just have to find a price out for it! lol)
am resting up at the moment with very little walking round! now that monsteroo is in bed it's a lot easier as don't have to run after him! lol :) will have it elivated in bed so it gets even more rest! lol
Hope there is an improvement in your foot after a night's rest, hatz 
well there was till i started walking on it! haha!!! grr! lol i'v put the bandage on differently last night and left it how it is this morning as the swelling was coming up where there was a gap in the bandage so i thought i'd best change it to give that more suport and it did help last night, it wasn't twinging away to it's self all night so i'v left it how it was last night and it has helped slightly in the walk up to school!
well did monsteroo's invites last night for his party and handed 1 out! haha... was a little bit late so didn't get round to seeing all the people so there just goin to have to be handed out in school and hope they go in the right direction!!! and just have to sit and wait for people to text me to say yay or nay! lol i'v done 16 invites so hopefully at least 10 out of them will say yes! :D
Glad your foot is slightly better Hatz. Good idea to get invitations out early too.
well we had one for the 12th june! lol the 11th was my first date i had in mind!!!!!! so it was a case of right we'll go for the weekend after! lol so needed to be done really! lol just incase any one else has a party i'm there first! haha! i know theres 2 others with birthdays around the same time as bambam's on who's is booked on the 12th! and the other is the week after! lol
aww this poor girl at school! she came running up to me in floods of tears, so i turned to her and said whats up darlin? and she said (in amongst these tears) a bird has just pooped on me :( aww bless her xx it must have been a HUGE bird for the size of it! lol but she was too upset to see the funny side of it, so i got her cardi off with out gettin it everywhere else too and then popped down the toilets to clean her hair up, thankfully it did only get the last inch of her hair and not in the middle of her head cuz that would have been even worse!!!!!!!!!! .... but why is it they say it's meant to be good luck?????????????
I don't know......but she could be about to win the Lottery, lol!
lol her parents maybe! lol 9yrs too young to actually play her self!!! lol poor kid but have to say i keep chuckling about it!!!!!!!!!!
well we'v got our class assembly tomorrow :) in the morning and me and mum are goin so will be good :) there doing it on Eric Carle (the aurthor of Hungry Caterpilla) and his lines (shared with a friend) are "we are going to use instruments to tell the story" so i guess he's more at the start :D cant wait for tomorrow :D it's going to be really good :D then there's cakes and a drink afterwards :D
well on our way out of the school gates the Depty head was there and she stopped us and started talking to monsteroo about something that he'd done in the day! she tried to get him to tell me but as usual he wont! lol so she told me and said that when it was there afternoon play the yr 6's were having a little party cuz it was there last SATS exam today and he came across to them and started to help them as all the cups kept flyin away in the wind and he was there grabbin them ready for the juice to go in them :) he did that with out being asked :)
I'm sure class assembly will be great!! C would have had one, but he's been off with the pulled ligament, so.... Still, he's not bothered (very unlike him)
WHAT A STAR! :D he did me proud to say the least! totally the oppersit to me! i was the quiet one who couldnt even go to the front of assemberly with my friends sat there! lol but nope he's up there at the front and SHOUTS his lines! :D brought a tear to my eye when they started singing MY FAVE song "I have seen the Golden sunshine!" and when the music started up everyone went quiet and my mum (pretty much shouts) aww you crying! 
(quick dig me a whole! let the grounds swollow me up! i'v got to see these kids again in an hr's TIME!!!!!!!!!!!) hahahahahaha thanks mummy! love you too!!!! but OMW! :D he was the perfect little man :D done me proud to say the least! :D His teacher came up to me at the end and said .... you can always count on your son to be the loudest! haha! my mum said yeh just cant count on him to be quiet!!!!! hahahahaha :D
Right! i'v got to straighten my hair ready for dinner break got just over 10mins! oops! :D chat laters x
Awww, your son did really well!
Awww. Well done to your son.
Awwwh hatz, thats lovely, well done to your son for being so confident xxx
He amazes me big time! if he's walking in to a party with his friends he wont go in! yet he walks in to the hall with all the parents that he dosen't know, all the teachers and the WHOLE school looking at him and he's fine!!??? lol
so came home for the hr! didn't get chance to sort my hair out so i just had to brush it and put up with it! could really do with a good cutting and thining out again! but not possible at the moment! so went up for dinner shift and everyone was really good! even the fighter was on his best behaviour today!!! Then stayed behind and did my wiggly readers and there seems to be a lot of children that's suddenly jumped up a few levels! my son will be on the next level on monday after the 2 books he's got now and the 2 that he'll get on monday he'll be on the next level!!! lol :D so it's all goin good! :D WHOOP!
well the monster is in bed :) he's got a party tomorrow at jungle madness :) so that should be fun :D just got to get there first! lol but shouldn't be too bad!
lol i came over to post something else but i'v toatally forgotten what it was!!! so i'll prob be back later when and if i remember what it was i was goin to put! hahahah
Well done to your son hatz. A brilliant end to the week for you both. Hope he has a fantastic time at the party.
We'v had a brilliant time at the party today :) and have even found something knew that monsteroo will eat! :O WHOOP! HAHA pizza fingers! so it looks like they'll be goin in to his lunch box on occasions! (altho 2 days every 3 weeks he's got pizza on the school menu, but if it's something he'll eat then it dosen't matter!!) it was really good at the party, jungle madness play for hr and 1/2 then dinner and then a little bit of a dance! don't know how much it all cost her as she was also buying drinks for the people that stayed behind with the children :O but there we go! lol saw a few people that have said they are coming to my son's party in June and told them what i was goin to be doin and they said that's a brilliant idea! hehe! i admited that i don't have all the money in the world! and so it's just goin to be a games afternoon and a picnick and they were amazed with what i'd come up with! HAHA! thing i see with parties is that people try and compeat, they go to one party and say right he's had this that and the other i'v got to do better than that!!! and by the end of the yr you'll get people that are having to book parties that are yes ok probably out of this world but just no point to them!!!
we'v had this one at jungle madness, next one so far were invited to is a foot ball party the one after that is ours! lol and i'm not plannin on doin party bags and the such! just goin to make how ever many cup cakes to children there are and they can each go home with a cup cake as there goin to be winning medles with the games lol so they'll have something else to take home with them too!!!
any ways! lol we'v had a good day, come home and have had hot frothy drinks to warm us back thru after waiting around for the bus! lol (then finding it was my Ex's new gf driving! grr! haha don't you just hate it when that happends! LMAO so just ignoored the fact that she was texting thru and sayin that i was on the bus and then again when i got off the bus and just said thanks on my way out! haha! in my eye's! they can both stick it!!!!) will catch up laters x bambam's after the computer! haha! :) .... and i'v got to get the washing up done! YAWNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!!!! haha!
Glad the party went well, despite the identity of the bus driver 
. Pizza figers, hmm I bet you can think of different flavours of those you can make.
Hi Hatz, glad you had a great time today xxx
i would if he ate any other apart from cheese and tomarto ones! lol but there we go! lol shall have to wait and see what we can find!
brrrr! the temp's droped a bit round here! went in to my son's room when was putting him in to bed and felt how cold it was :( ... ok his room aint the best any ways! lol use to be my brothers room and he bust the radiator off the wall! so that's hanging top 1/2 off the wall! and then he gose and busts the windows too! so his windows at the moment are gaffertaped up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! to try keep some heat in for him! lol but hopefully that's all goin to change before the winter sets in again lol people have been round the estate and measured up the windows and sent it all of to the people that are making them! so we should be getting new windows at some point this yr! :D WHOOP! so he's actually gone to bed in thermol pjs! and his 10togg dovet! lol just to make him a bit more snug that what he is!!!
yeh the bus driver! lol was strange but thought i just cant be bothered to make any comment so just carried on as tho i didn't know her! thought it was the best way too cuz of having mostneroo with me, i didnt want anything to end up happaning against or too him! so i just carried on while she sat there and text'ed thru to the ex and then again when i got off the bus! ... sometimes these things are just TOOO obvious even tho they now sit in the little kubby whole lol
well i'm goin to go dive under my dovet in about 1/2 hr to warm back thru and i am rather tired today lol, got woken up by monster deciding to lie across my bed and put his feet on my chest rather hard so it actually made me jump and winded me a little bit too :( ... he's got a bad habbit of doin that at the moment! lol the other one he dose SOME HOW! is to get his foot down the back of my pj's trousers! :O ?? i really don't know how he dose it but i'm there relaxed and fast asleep then all of a sudden theres a foot down my trouser! hahahahaha! so i end up waking up and fishin that out! but there we go! lol hopefully one day he'll start sleepin all night and not end up in my bed after 4 or 5am! lol
any ways few more mins and then head off to bed x chat tomorrow some point x
AARRGGHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
IN EXACTLY 1MONTHS TIME I'LL BE WAKING UP TO A 5YR OLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
Five isn't too bad.
It's when they hit 13...
haha! your not meant to scare me off from having a tennager! haha! :D it was just a strange moment when i looked at the date today and realised it was the 15th lol
well today we'v chopped the headge ... well i say chop! it's gone from about 3ft wide to 1/4 of the size! haha!!! we'v pretty much taken our side down to nothing and left the neighbours side as she likes it! HAHA!! just got to take the last few stumps out of our side and we'll be leaving it like that really! less hassle all round! :D ... so bambams been helping us pick the peices up and as we were putting it in to a HUGE gravle bag when it got to about 1/2 way i made him jump on it and he was loving it as he said "it's just like a trampoline!!" :D so i got him squashin it all down! (saved me lookin a fool tryin to jump on it! haha!! so he was having fun jumpin up and down on all the hedge! (with me holding him!)
so we'v all been busy today really! me step dad and his mate has been out doing land rover stuff and me mum and the son have been sorting the hedge out! lol He's just gone to bed (well at 8!) a little late for a sunday night but was waiting for me step dad's chicken to cook then could have tea! so everything was late this evening! we the had ice creams he went in the bath and then straight up to bed! :D just hope he stays there really! :D he got up at 11pm last night sayin he was hungry then he slept till 7:30 in his bed! lol
and dont you just hate it when you think it's time for bed and then reaslie it's monday tomorrow and your son's on pack up for dinner! haha! best go make it! :D
i'v just had a really good catch up with my lil sis :D not spoke to her for a little while and so was good to chat to her tonight! :D her daughter has now hit the 8lb mark! :D she's aprox 8wks! lol (just had her first jabs!) and her son was weighed while there (to keep him amused for the few mins lol) and they found he weighed 2st 9! he's 3, 4 in oct! :D both doin really well, and my lil sis really loved her little pressies! hehe! brought her daughter the mini mouse pj set, i brought her a 3 pack of caramel dairy milk and i grabbed 4 small packs of jelly sweets out my son's box for her son! hehe! she's offered to help pay the rest of my holiday off! told her i'll see how it gose! i' v still got £150 to pay and got to be done for the 23rd! hummmmm! think it's time to grovle!
right best start sandwhichs before father ted comes on! hahahahaha ... and it's one i'v NOT seen :O OMW! HAHA chat laters x
Glad your sister's children seem to be doing so well. Hope you got sorted for this morning. I love Father Ted too, which is your favourite episode?
"No i'll pay" "no i'll pay" NO i'll pay" "NO I'LL pay" ahahahhaha! "will you have a cup of tea father?" "no mrs doyle, i'm fine!" "ah go on!" "no really i'm fine!" "ah go on" "No I'm FINE!" "ah go on..... go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on go on!" hahahahahhaha I LOVE MRS DOYLE! but yeh mrs Doyle in the cafe with some one else fightin over who pays for tea and both ending up in prison, ted has the money to baile them out but dosen't admit it and doogle tryin to get his attention to say that his zip's undone and ted thinks he's sayin that he has got the money! so a big mix up all round! HAHA! the other one i like is "I DON'T BELEIVE IT!" haha and ted gettin knocked out just as doogle takes the photo! haha .... AND the one with Graham Norton in and there in the cave and he dosen't stop talking! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH! (God i'm so sad to know all of that! HAHAHAHA!) lmao!
yeh i'm sorted! :D did his dinner last night he's ended up with ... Egg mayo sandwhich (1slice folded in 1/2) a pot of grapes and strawberries a pot of veg sticks and cream creese so he can dip them sticks in to the cheese! (told him that bit this morning!) told him that he's to at least TRY the dip so i wont to see the lid open, and it have at least 1 dip in it!!!!! (not that he's that fussy!) if he dosen't like it then he's at least to eat the veg sticks which contain .... cucumber, carrots celarey and a hand full of tomatoes! he's got a little box of dry apple and raisins a choc roll and a little pack of oreo biscuits (mini ones!) then i'v put 2 cartons of juice in as sometimes he's REALLY thirsty! so i'm hoping he'll eat something today! if not then he'll just be hungry! other than that had his uniform sorted out when he went to bed so that was ok he just had to jump in to it! ... one day he might suprise me and be dressed before he comes in to mine! haha! chance will be a fine thing! ... how-ever he did open his curtains before he came out of his room this morning!!! lol
anyways this isn't getting job searching done! lol or cleaning the rabbits! OR drinking my cuppa! haha! so goin to get goin so can do those things before work! chat laters x
i'm in a bit of a dilema! haha! i don't know how to break the news of my holiday to my mum! lol i know it's best to just come out with it and everything but when she thinks i'v just got no money at all at the moment and everything when actually i'v got no money cuz i'm payin for my holiday! (which i'v just managed to pay another £100 off so only got £50 to pay!) i don't know how to tell her well i was actually payin of a holiday that's why i didn't have the money! oops! eek! lol i know she'll be cross with me cuz i'v not been able to give her money to help her out or anything! but i know that after this last payment of £50 i'll be able to start givin her some again!
??? but how do i tell her! ??? were on holiday 2 months TOMORROW! haha! i cant wait! lmao shall i just go and not come back till the end of holidays! :D hehe (i wouldn't actually do such a thing!!!!) i'm usely 90% of the time very honest with my mum but with us all having no money at the moment i'v kept this bit of info from her!
Oh I don't know the answer to that one, hatz! especially if you have not been paying any rent or food money to her, she may well be cross. Maybe you could "minimise" the cost of the holiday, not that I am encouraging you to fib or anything 
and choose a time when she is in a good mood, maybe make her a nice meal?
hehe! i wasn't goin to tell her how much it did cost me! lol just the fact that were goina way! ... could say i won it i supose! lol .... i knew i should have told her ages ago! haha!!! ah well it'll be ok at the end of the day it is MY money and i can do what i wana do with it! ... don't get me wrong there has been times when i'v brought £40 worth of shopping and times when i'v brought things that we do need in the house! so it's not like i'v not put anything towards anything really! lol and i'v sent her my winnings on paypal! lol (£20!) might just get bambam to come out with it one day! haha then say oh dont you remember!? .... i told you a little while back! lol ... nah i won't lie to her like that, and wont leave my son to come out with it! haahha!
there goin away for the weekend so i'll send her a text message sayin i'v just won a holiday! haha that way she don't have to see my face and i'll tell her the details when she comes back! hahahahha! .... gosh i'm bad at lieing!!! lol the price of the holiday wasn't too bad considering that were goin gold star at butlins minehead! £485 (had to pay for the fact that theres only 2 of us goin and were stayin in an appartment suited for 4! lol stupid under ocupancy rules!)
Well it is up to you how you handle it but the nearer you get to the truth the better, I reckon (in my experience). She might ask to see the letter if you say you won it and will be more cross if she thinks you have fibbed, perhaps better to just "reduce" the cost?
hehe! i'll come out with it at some point! sneak it on the calendar then if she asks tell her! lol i never tell her how much it would be any ways! lol that's just for me really! unles she asks then will prob say 250! but she prob wont ask that part!
i'm too honest with me mum sometimes and sometimes i just don't know if i should be or not so it always ends up coming out at the end of the day! lol remember when i found out i was pregnant took me over a month to tell her and that was after my first visit to hospital for the scan! haha all she said was ... thought so .... there's been nothing in the toilet room for a while!!! and then it was silent treatment for a whole week so i shut my self in my room for that week out the way and let her get on with it! lol then when i couldn't take it any longer i blue tacked the scan pic to the front door on my way out to work and when i got home she gave me a hug! lol she's always said she didn't want to be a young grandma! lol she's 55 (i think) next yr lol! so i did wait till she was past the 50 stage!!! (not that i had much interest before that point in school or college!) and at 22 i had the monsteroo! lol so it's not like i was a young mummy lol
well had to run in to town this evening as mum said she was goin out so siad well we need some milk on your rounds and then she never did go out! so after tea we had a chap coming round to talk to us about betterware catalogs so thought i'll take the monsteroo out down town that way we'll be out there way so they can talk in peice! but came back to stuffing betterware catalogs and we'v been given the top end of town to post! so it should be fun! lol
Hi hatz
It is not for your mother to be supporting you when you are a mother yourself.
I would own up to your mum, straight up and offer to pay her back for the money you haven't been paying her, even if it is an extra tenner a week, let her know in the light of things looking back that it was wrong to have let her cover for you, especially if it was for rent or food and extra especially if you are saying that money is tight for her too at the moment.
Money and trust go very tightly together and you really don't want it to cause bad vibes at home.
I just heard back from county hall about the extra work i'v enquired about with school and .... there goin to send the paper work out, got to have a chat about road saftey and all that and go for a medical to make sure my sight, hearing and mobility is all right to be able to do the job! ... it could only be till 6th june BUT as the other lady has monthly check ups and if she dosen't pass by the hospital they give her another months sick note! it's prob goin to be every month that i end up doing the job! she also asked if i could step in if the lady at the top gose on sick leave too and i said yes that's no prob! (so long as there not both off at the same time and they want me to cover both areas lol!) so i'v just got to wait for all this paper work to come thru and see what happends really! lol she asked about my CRB and when it runs out so i said well only got it oct last yr with school so it's got a little while left on it yet! and as it's a clean sheet of paper with no reasons to have anything printed on it in the boxes (it will basicly stay like that!) i doubt there any problems really! ..... just got to trust that the cars WILL stop as it's quite a tricky patch of road to get the children across!!!! WHOOP! DINNER LADY come LOLLYPOP LADY! :D nice fetching florecent yellow/orange knee length coat and a matching orange hat .... i cant wait! HAHAHAHAHAHA!
it will at least lend a hand for some extra pocket money for our holiday! :D
aww i know i wont be the only one with a child playin up! just feels like it! lol we'v had another good morning other than a night where he woke up twice once cuz he was VERY hot and sweaty and the other he was in pain?? but he wasn't awake so i had to bring him round from his sleep to work out what was up with him! ... find out he hit his leg on the side of his bed and he needed a wee! lol after that he went straight back off to sleep!! but yes good mornng this morning he's helped me get him up to school and when we got there he said mummy you sit down there with N's mummy i'm ok from here! ... bless him! :D then he went off to talk to N's sister who had a HUGE werm! He saw Mr H. (school caretaker) coming and came back up to me got his bags and said i'll see you later mummy i'm goin round to the play ground now!!! and off he went! :D ... perfect little angle! hehe! :D
well i managed to catch up with the lad in the wheel chair and his mum today! and I asked him what he'd done ... he turned round and said I ran in to a car! :O oops! not good! his mum was like yes! and there was me thinking i'll have a week to get over Easter with no kids and work!!! (she booked last week of work!) so i kinda made a joke out of it and was sayin did you forget to use your eyes! (he's only 5!) he was like yep! I don't know! what ya like! then chatted to his mum for a min or 2 and she said he's getting a 1/2 cast on tomorrow (he's got a cast on that gose above his knee to stop him moving his leg at all at the moment!) so i turned back round to him and said i bet your loving your mummy push you round again, and she said OH yes!!! back to being a baby he loves it! haha! :D he's got another 6weeks of school :O then were only in for about 3 weeks and break up for summer hols!
well my ankle is nice and big and puffy! got it strapped up at least so it is helping suport it! when woke up this mornin the whole of the inside of my ankle was just HUGE! (sorry if your squemish!) but when i did it i heard a lot of tearing sounds! and beleive that was ligaments! so it's slightly painfull at the moment The last time i did it was about ... monsteroo was just walking so would have been just after he was 1 ... and i went up to my friends and we had a jacuzzi party! couple of good drinks later i stepped out the door (after getting him out in his buggy!) and then went back in got my coat went to go back out the door and lost the floor! ... in my eyes the floor moved!!!!!!!!!!!! (i had been on the jack daniels!!!!) and about 3 days later of me strapping it up good and propper, i took the bandage off and my ankle was BLACK! so i thought i'll take a trip to A&E and had it x-rayed! found i torn all my ligaments then too! so was on crutches for a month which didn't work out cuz i couldn't push the buggy and use the crutches at the same time! so i just used the buggy for support! and it's the same leg! lol but there we go! live and learn as they say!
well i'm goin to get goin for a bit! i seem to have my good boy back but i dont really want to talk too soon! lol just keeping an eye on him and see what he dose! :)