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Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

You are all so funny! I love it. :D

Updates required please from ALL readers on Christmas progress?

Posted on: December 9, 2009 - 8:45am
Bubblegum
DoppleMe

Just got a keyboard and one of those healter skelter things with balls in them that you tune over, my daughter wanted one, my son asked for a keyboard.

I've been getting stuff from eBay and my local charity shop, bit by bit, dribs and drabs. Sometime before Christmas I will go and spend about £30 in this really nice Toyshop in Conwy, it's like an old toyshop like I remember when I was a kid full of stuff from under a quid to over a hundred, in fact they have a rocking horse downstairs that costs a couple of grand.

Mine are seven and five, and they have pretty simple demands thankfully. My sister has been taking them to see Father Christmas each weekend in the various garden centres around here and reporting back to me what they have been asking for... My son wants some red boots, thigh high red boots, I despair! and a keyboard and my daughter wants a snowman .. ? but there you go.

Posted on: December 9, 2009 - 10:47am
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

:lol: :lol: :lol: thigh high red boots!!!! Well, Bubblegum, I do declare, :lol: :lol:

Posted on: December 9, 2009 - 11:37am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I bought some tinsel yesterday 8-)

Posted on: December 9, 2009 - 2:51pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

...and we await the pictures of the aerial!!!

Bubblegum sounds as if your children have seen Santa more than once. HAS anyone else been to see Santa this year? Has anyone ever worked in a Grotty...sorry, a grotto?

Posted on: December 9, 2009 - 6:53pm
Bubblegum
DoppleMe

Louise wrote:
Bubblegum sounds as if your children have seen Santa more than once

They know he's not the real one, as my son pointed out, he could see his real beard under his pretend one... They have been to see more than one as my sister is addicted to those garden centres for stuff for her garden, so I think she is just using my kids as an excuse to go shopping every Saturday.

I read this some place recently and it made me laugh but it was someone's letter to father Christmas and it went, Dear Father Christmas please could you just give me the naughty girls list this year.

Posted on: December 9, 2009 - 8:29pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

:lol:

Yes I was wondering whether your children had waited till Santa number two or three had asked them what they wanted and said "Look! I told you last time!"

So has no-one ever done a part time job with Santa?

Posted on: December 10, 2009 - 9:59am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Bubblegum wrote:
Just got a keyboard and one of those healter skelter things with balls in them that you tune over, my daughter wanted one, my son asked for a keyboard.

I've been getting stuff from eBay and my local charity shop, bit by bit, dribs and drabs. Sometime before Christmas I will go and spend about £30 in this really nice Toyshop in Conwy, it's like an old toyshop like I remember when I was a kid full of stuff from under a quid to over a hundred, in fact they have a rocking horse downstairs that costs a couple of grand.

Mine are seven and five, and they have pretty simple demands thankfully. My sister has been taking them to see Father Christmas each weekend in the various garden centres around here and reporting back to me what they have been asking for... My son wants some red boots, thigh high red boots, I despair! and a keyboard and my daughter wants a snowman .. ? but there you go.

Puss in Boots, maybe?

Posted on: December 10, 2009 - 10:49am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

That's right, he could get a job in panto! By the waym i read in the paper the other day there is a school in Warwickshire that has received lots of complaints after they did a "modern" version of Hansel and Gretel. H & G were thugs who terrorised the old lady in the gingerbread house, were given community service orders and eventually repented. Did anyone see that story?

Posted on: December 10, 2009 - 12:44pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I didn't see that one, I have to say. The idea makes me smile, yet I'm not sure how I'd have felt if they'd have done it in my youngest's school. High school though, I would have been ok with.

Posted on: December 10, 2009 - 1:18pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Not heard of that Louise. :o
Haven't taken my son any grotto's this year. He knows that these ones aren't the 'real ones'. A few years ago, on the station platform, he got soooooooo excited as he 'saw the real santa, waiting for a train'! Obviously he was in disguise because he didn't have his 'proper' clothes on :lol: :lol:

Posted on: December 10, 2009 - 1:28pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

When I was a student (1903? :lol: ) I worked in a large department store on Saturdays and in the holidays. I had to work as an fairy one Christmas in the grotto. The outfit was delectable and included a blonde wig. Santa went out every lunchtime and got drunk and was salacious to the fairies.... and the behaviour of the children made me think very seriously about future parenthood.

At least this year I haven't heard of any of those Christmas Adventure places that were a sham, like last year. The guys from last year have only just had their case come to court.

Are any of your chidren doing letters to Santa this year?

Posted on: December 10, 2009 - 1:37pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

My son did an e.mail (just before the internet was cut). They ask what date you would like to receive an e.mail back from Santa etc, and my son put the 5th Dec. It hasn't arrived :cry: I e.mailed them on Tuesday, and they said they would send one straight away.
I'm still waiting :evil:
To be honest though, my son hasn't mentioned it, so i'm keeping my mouth firmly closed ;)

Posted on: December 10, 2009 - 1:59pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

My son is crafty!!! Just now he says, 'On Christmas day, I am going to open up my presents VERY carefully, and put the wrapping under the tree', (so it doesn't look bare). I say, 'thats a good idea'. He then says, 'just so I remember what I'm going to do, I should open a present now'. (Do I have idiot written on my forehead)
Now he says, I will cry if I can't it, and my reply????? Go, and get some tissue from the bathroom then. I'm all heart :lol: :lol: :lol:

Posted on: December 11, 2009 - 7:41pm
lindsaygii

Your boy really spins 'em, doesn't he Alison? What a chancer! Ha haha. I'm still laughing about 'the floor shook'. Heh. :lol:

Posted on: December 11, 2009 - 9:46pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi lindsay
he certainly is a chancer!!! He asked me to go on line and chat to Sparkling, and ask her!!!!!!! Thankgod, she agreed with me, hehe. Sooooooo, the little fella was reading her reply and crying some more. (at least i have someone else to blame).

Sparkling, beware of the 7 year old!!!
Lindsay, you have all this to come, what joy! :lol:
All quiet for now, oh god, more to face tomorrow, Helpppppppp.
Take care all, have a good night.
Alison
x :)

Posted on: December 11, 2009 - 11:28pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Oh alisoncam your boy does sound like he will go far in life! :D

I expect he is looking forward to the Xfactor final tonight? I read that one contestant will leave tonight and the final two will go through to tomorrow. He will be rooting for Stacey. Lie low or you might have to make a banner!

Posted on: December 12, 2009 - 9:08am
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Louise
Yep, he is rooting for Stacey. I hope she wins, or else, I'm sure that will be my fault :lol: :lol:
One more week at school, yesssssssss. I'm looking forward to the 'not rushing around' bit, but I'm dreading it, as he'll be sooooooooo hyper.
I bought some 'snow' for the windows, (never done this before). I cut out a star, and sprayed that, then I sprayed a reindeer etc. For my first effort, it's not bad, he rated me, and gave 8 out of 10 :D Might not be perfect, but we both had a lot of laughs doing it.
Have a good day
Alison
x :)

Posted on: December 12, 2009 - 9:39am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Well done that sounds lovely, they really like getting everything ready don't they?

Fingers crossed for Stacey then, for your sake!

Posted on: December 12, 2009 - 4:50pm
Claire-Louise

Hi All
I am really lookinf forward to xmas and we are having a very chilled afair this year. The kids saw Father Christmas today at a friends school fayre and a great grotto it was too with a very authentic looking man!!!!
I only take them to one grotto per year so they don't work out what is really going on.
All my order pressie have arrived in time which is a real relief and Iam feeling quite calm, although I have a lot of work to finish off in the next week to ensure ths xmas is chilled!
Cheers C-L

Posted on: December 12, 2009 - 8:58pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Claire-Louise
I bet the kids had a fab time today :D So glad that your order arrived. You can now breathe deeply, and relax. Its great that you are organising for a chilled xmas, (I always plan one of those, and get incredibly stressed, even when there is nothing to stress about)!!!!
Are your parents coming to yours, or are you going to them, or just having the xmas with the kids?
Hope you're having a lovely weekend, (sounds like you are).
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: December 12, 2009 - 9:52pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Glad you've had a good day Claire-Louise.

Alison, I hope your son is ok after the X-Factor... :roll:

Posted on: December 13, 2009 - 2:01am
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

[Hi Sparkling
I can't tell you how much I dreaded that one!!! I had spoken to my sister earlier in the day, and she knew how my son was feeling! As soon as the result was announced, the phone immediately rang! It was my sister, bless her. Sooooooooo, I think that took the tears straight away, ;)
I think Stacey could have indeed been his first luvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv. :lol:

Are you ok Sparkling, you were up awfully late last night, (morning)
Take care
Alison
x :)

Joe to win now, I'm in love with him! Ok, Ok, I can have dreams can't I? :o :o

Posted on: December 13, 2009 - 10:45am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Yes I thought of your son during XFactor, alisoncam, Stacey will still be on tonight though, and it should also be my favourite bit of the whole series: the group song by some of the worst auditionees!

What are you up to today?

Posted on: December 13, 2009 - 12:18pm
Claire-Louise

Hi Alisoncam
Thanks for the post. My parents are coming to stay next week for a few days but they are staying with my brother for xmas (he lives in France and is all alone for xmas this year) so it will be quiet but I am really looking forward to that as it has all been so hectic in the run up. The kids are exhausted and still have a week of school/nursery to go!
We always meet up with friends on xmas day if we are in Bristol which the kids love so that will be nice - hot chocolate and a chat and a sharing of new toys etc! My parents do a fantastic advent calendar for my children with sweets, clues and presents in it so that really builds their excitement which is nice.
The santa's grotto we went to was fantastic (just at a school fayre) but a very autentic santa with 'homegrown' beard etc (no fake bits in site) and a lovely mystical air to him when he spoke to the children! he talked about remembering what excelent mince pies he had eaten at our house last year. They even had an official photographer so I will put the photo in their stocking too which will add to the mystery!
Cheers C-L

Posted on: December 13, 2009 - 9:15pm
Bubblegum
DoppleMe

Yep! I'd be choosing France too, good French wine, cheeses.... I expect the whole him being alone story is just to make you feel better...

:lol:

Posted on: December 13, 2009 - 10:16pm
Bubblegum
DoppleMe

He's probably surrounded by beautiful French people casually smoking cigarettes on balconies having intellectual conversations...

Posted on: December 13, 2009 - 10:19pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi
Well blow me down, last night, my little darling announced that secretly he wanted Joe to win (his nose grew as he was saying it) :lol: :lol:
Didn't do much of anything at the weekend. The normal washing, dinners etc, but didn't even venture out. I have had pain in my back for the last few days, (osteoporosis). Feeling slightly better, but I also think the cold doesn't help!
Did you have a good weekend Louise? Uhmmmmm, could it have been a PJ one.
Mine was ;)

Louise wrote:
Yes I thought of your son during XFactor, alisoncam, Stacey will still be on tonight though, and it should also be my favourite bit of the whole series: the group song by some of the worst auditionees!

What are you up to today?

Posted on: December 14, 2009 - 12:25pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I hope you are a bit better today. My knuckles have been so sore they've been making me get up really early, the pain wouldn't let me go back to sleep - and that's my fingers!! :lol:

I've got three weeks of wages to do now. The plumbing firm is shutting on Friday (if they get the work done!!) until 4 January.

Posted on: December 14, 2009 - 10:07pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello sparkling how did you get on with the wages? How long does it take?

Alisoncam funnily enough I nearly asked you about having a PJ day? I went to some friends on Saturday night, it was great fun and we had a Chinese with all different dishes. Sunday was almost a PJ day. I got up late and went to bed early, had to watch XFactor from the Saturday online as well but I finished everything for Christmas, Yey! When does your son finish school?

Posted on: December 15, 2009 - 9:08am
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Louise
My son finishes on Friday at 3pm. Today, it is his school party, so normal clothes on, and biscuits were taken in. I remember our last week at school for Christmas, we were allowed to take games in, but times have changed I guess. (I am talking donkeys years ago mind)
Was drooling over the post about the chinese. I was chatting to someone on Sunday, and got on the subject of curries and chinese. I could easily have wolfed a chinese down then. (still could actually). crispy duck with the delicious sauce. Mouth watering again :D
Has your eldest finished uni yet? How about your youngest son, when does he finish?
Still got few things to do before totally sorted for Christmas, but not much at all really.
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: December 15, 2009 - 12:42pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

It took ages to do the wages. But at least now I don't need to think about them until 5 January!

I've put envelopes in for three weeks for me :roll: We've sort of never really discussed holidays - although they know I'm here if they need anything, and I will be looking after their cat for part of the holiday. I'm not setting my heart on three weeks though. I do have fingers crossed :D

I'm looking forward to Friday, although we're all going to have a haircut after school (which I'm hoping I will have three weeks wages...), and then youngest has the football party in the evening.

Saturday we're having an end of term party - although as everyone usually comes straight from school, I'm not sure how successful this is going to be - which will be my fault, of course 8-) for booking a haircut in January (I'm desperate for a trim, so is the eldest, and then there's no appointments until after Christmas).

I'll just be so glad to not have to get them up each morning.

Posted on: December 15, 2009 - 1:34pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Yes sparkling lime, my boy is having to be booted out of the door every morning to school too! You certainly have a full itinerary.Hope you get your wages. Will your end of term party be featuring The Killers, by any chance? ;)

Alisoncam my boy has finished all his Uni lectures but he has a part time job so not coming home till next Monday, my 15 year old finishes school Thursday. I hope your son had a nice party, and maybe they will be able to take games in on Friday. As for curries, you could look at the crockpot sites you and sparkling have posted?

Posted on: December 15, 2009 - 9:41pm
pinkgrapefruit

its my last day at uni tomorrow :) you just made me laugh as we have to take in games tomorrow to play - how mad is that?! I think they have to be games that we would share with our future classes at ends of term etc but sounds like a fun day nonetheless - the only proviso is that it has to be 'loosely mathematical' but apparently connect 4 is acceptable :) whooppee, I'll be bouncing out of bed in the morning as I should be unbeatable the amount of games son makes me play ! lol

Posted on: December 15, 2009 - 9:53pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi Bec, You will be finished by now, whoopee! well done for getting through the term :)

Alisoncam did your boy enjoy his party?

Posted on: December 17, 2009 - 9:44am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Bec, I really hope you enjoy the holidays :)

Posted on: December 17, 2009 - 9:55am
pinkgrapefruit

yippee, I have survived the first term (just two more to go....), its lovely being able to relax a bit, not too much work to do over christmas. Did lots of christmas shopping today and hope to finish it tomorrow, then plan the christmas menus and everything... have arranged for son to have a new school friend to play on mon, trying to build a few more links in the village (we only moved here in the summer)...so far so good.

Bit disappointed on the counselling front. Spoke to a counselling service today (thanks for the details Louise), they sound perfect for what I need, but the journey there is quite difficult and busy, would have to allow at least an hour during rush hour. From beginning of Jan I'm at new school so can't have appointments in school hours, but I don;t think I'd be able to get to the counselling place, have an hours appointment, and guarantee being back at son's school by 5.30 pm for the end of after school club...so I've put that on hold at the moment as I know the timings would result in me getting really stressed during the journeys and would defeat all the good that the counselling might give. I still don't have enough people locally to help me out with childcare, I have before and after clubs that are fine, then a babysitter that I use when necessary but she is expensive (but I trust her so like using her), and my ex, but the time that my ex has my son are not practical for counselling - unless I can find somewhere that offers saturday appointments - can't imagine thats very likely tho...feeling bit more upbeat today, will see how long that lasts...still feel like I have lots of issues that I should address before I can move on really.

Oh dear just realised I'm on the christmas thread and I've gone off subject a bit - sorry!

Hope your kids are all loving the run up to christmas, thanks for your support as ever

X

Posted on: December 17, 2009 - 9:14pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I'm glad today's been an upbeat one.

We had the Christmas parties in Cubs and Scouts. I did the games we did in Beavers last week. Reading out a story after giving each 'child' a word. When I read the word they race up the hall, round a couple of chairs and back down again. With Santa, Clause, Saint, Nicholase, day, etc, they can end up doing a few laps of the hall.

Its funny how the older ones enjoy being juvenile! Even the almost 18 year olds were killing themselves laughing!!

I've had gifts and cards from the children. I'm so shocked and wonderfully surprised by that!

No more Scouts until January.

Posted on: December 18, 2009 - 12:10am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello Bec that's shame about the counselling practicalities. Couple of things: you could ask at your GP surgery, which would be nearer (tho probably waiting list) or you could wait till you know someone well enough to pick your son up once a week (heh heh).

However!!!! it is now the holidays and you sound really busy with getting everything ready. Your son will be so excited. Do you have some snow there? It is like a Chrsitmas card up here, BRRRR wrap up warm everyone :)

Posted on: December 18, 2009 - 9:21am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello sparkling the party sounds great fun, I could well imagine them all running around. Are you going to save your gifts till the big day or have you already had a peep?

Posted on: December 18, 2009 - 9:23am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

They'll go under the tree. :D

I've not peeped, and happen to know one little boy who who'd be ripping paper of a parcel if he thought I'd looked. :lol:

It will be nice to have some presents on Christmas day though.

The other Scout Leader was eyeing up what I had :lol: He'd had one and had three - but I did point out that one was from Cubs 8-) I'm just so touched that anyone thought of it. Lovely

Posted on: December 18, 2009 - 1:06pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

You so deserve it sparkling lime! I know what you mean though, we Mums don;t get many prezzies :(

My friend has a four year old daughter and she has to buy herself a couple of cheapie things and wrap them to appear on Christmas morning, as otherwise her daughter says "Santa hasn't brought you anything Mummy, you must have been VERY naughty"! :lol:

Posted on: December 18, 2009 - 4:11pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Louise wrote:
You so deserve it sparkling lime! I know what you mean though, we Mums don;t get many prezzies :(

My friend has a four year old daughter and she has to buy herself a couple of cheapie things and wrap them to appear on Christmas morning, as otherwise her daughter says "Santa hasn't brought you anything Mummy, you must have been VERY naughty"! :lol:

:lol: :lol:

Posted on: December 18, 2009 - 7:44pm
Claire-Louise

I think my computer has been affected by the snow as it seems very slow to connect tonight?!
Bec - Well done for surviving the first term - the other two will float by now I'm sure! Shame about the counselling but I would ask at the GPs now anyway and something might come through for next year which could work out.
Sparkling - the party sounds great fun and I am so glad that you got some pressies form the children there - it sounds like you put an awful lot of time and effort into your work there that it is really good to have that appreciated.
I am getting my hot water bottle ready and getting into bed soon I am afraid - its time to start hibertnating!
Cheers C-L

Posted on: December 18, 2009 - 9:13pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hope you had a snuggly night, Claire Louise, it does make me feel like hibernating too.

Hope everyone's coughs and sneezes are a bit better this morning.

Is anyone braving the shops this weekend? I am waiting till Tuesday to pop into town in the hope that it will have quietened down.

Posted on: December 19, 2009 - 8:22am
Claire-Louise

Hi Louise
Thanks for that. Had a lovely nights sleep but found it hard getting out of bed this morning as it was sooooo warm in bed and soooooooo cold out of it! Oh to be a hedgehog :D
Anyway I was thinking of going to town today to do last bits of shopping then it hit me how busy it could be and that a lot of people are still working next week so I have decided to put it off till Monday or Tuesday so still hibernating as we speak - have not been out today any of us which is great. Coughs and colds beginning to clear up too which is good.
Cheers C-L

Posted on: December 19, 2009 - 6:38pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I hope you having a happy-hibernating weekend. :)

Posted on: December 19, 2009 - 9:24pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

hedgehog ! :lol: that's great.

I went to the local shops yesterday, that's after my son had helped me clear the very deep snow off my car :shock: On Wednesday I will be up even earlier than usual to pop to the supermarket at 6am before everyone else gets there. I do that every year, now the boys are old enough to leave. My eldest is home tomorrow!

Posted on: December 20, 2009 - 8:39am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I've had a text this morning. Christmas day he wants to see the children 10am - 12 noon.

Posted on: December 20, 2009 - 3:12pm
pinkgrapefruit

Hi Sparklinglime,

How do you feel about the Christmas day visit? I've got a similar one requested by my ex. I'm just going to have to grin and bear it I guess and keep thinking about how much my son will enjoy it...at least it will be over by lunchtime and we can relax!

Enjoy the run up to Christmas

x

Posted on: December 20, 2009 - 7:59pm