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Well today i contactedthe Legal Ombudsman again and they are investigating my complaint, feel so much better and good to have clarification of my rights s i know them to be now and not a year ago. Today will be a good day x
It's great when we see a glimmer of light or at least someone listens to us and believes us...let's hope it is indeed a good day!
The one thing i have learned is you must at all times try and look at your situation objectivly, there is something to be said of that nagging doubt.... It is intimidatting and extremmly stressful and often you are made to feel, inadequte, incorrect and emotional vunrebility is exploited (in some cases) There is no point in moaning about it, what about the next family... In my case i choose this way... i'm sure there will me many more nights like last night, but the law is there we have to find it and sadly that is the bottom line... Good luck and nomatter how you are felling try do something selfless today, even if it's smiling at someone.. (becareful though, there are some wrug un's out there lol) Seriously doing something for someone else will lift your spirits xx
lizzielaw im really pleased they are looking into it for you like louise says when there is a glimmer of light it lifts your spirits .. and your very right and i am a deeply emotional person so i think i do sometimes come across vulnerable and sometimes defensive ... and.. i love a good moan haha ... and your right it does lift your spirits my daughters friend is coming for a play date so i will give his mother a biscuit with her brew after your advice lol maybe safer than smiling at a wrong un as thats what i seem to attract lol im so glad you are feeling ore positive long may it continue thank you for your kind words and i hope the legal ombudsman sort it for you ... i have received a phone call from social services ... my local mp had rang the managers she just asked me questions and was satisfied with all i am doing ... xx
hi just me cud i av ur nu for chatxx
hiya kiera louise said that we couldnt give them out on here??? youd be most welcome x
Hi kiera, just me is right, it is against our forum rules for members on One Space to make personal contact.
The idea is that single parents can support each other online, but also remain anonymous.
Sorry girls 
yeah ur not allowed to,...PART OF MESSAGE REMOVED BY MODERATOR... i understand why ur not allowed to giv numbers out, xx
started freedom programme again today, even tho ive dun few sessions, ad misee 4 sessions cos ad no1 to av my little girl, and dun 1 to 1 thru wave, sorry ad missed 4 sessions, so doin it again, and we avin party next thur to celebrate feedom programme, met sum nice women therexx
im on netmums to kiera i find it really useful whats your name on there ? and wow that sounds fab it is hard to see things fully through when you have childcare issues so dont beat yourself up about missing the sessions as its happened to me lots before today its great you will be socialising with them thats something to look forward to :) i have just sent an email to my solicitor ... god i was nervous as i hate coming across badly or complaining but i have had to go to another solicitor i just hope it doesnt bite me in the bum xx
hi hun its gud netmums, i luk for food recipies on there lol, wots ur name on there il send u messagexx
its anon lol so there will be a few whats yours xx
hi just me how are u, avnt heard off u, hope ur okxx
hiya kiera sorry i have had no internet !!! im up and down tbh hows things with you ?? xx
Hello justme it is good to hear from you. I hate it when I have no internet! Glad to hear there have been some up times as well as down times. How are you getting on at the new solicitor?
aww sorry louise i didnt think but thankyou for informing me .. i have been on the phone all morning contacted another solicitor who is finally willing to view my case and also my mp has taken my details and is going to ring me back at some point today .. i feel like there is a slither of hope which has lifted me a little .. it may all come to nothing but as long as theres any chance at all whoever small ill fight .. sorry again and thankyou x