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Just been re reading stuff: Princess, in my opinion little children are a doddle and teenagers are mostly horrid!
Mark, my husband died and it definitely affected the children. There are no two ways about it.
Am in a bit of a pickle - lost my bank card and had to cancel it. *sigh* I am sure it will turn up any minute now that I've done that....
Weather (down South!) is lovely today!
Hopefully Hopeful, the bank card will turn up, but at least you've cancelled it. Does it take about a week or so before you get another one?
Weather here is now sunny, after a morning of heavy rain. rabbit hutch is now steaming dry 
Hi Hopeful
If you cancel any bank card on a working day within the working hours you should get a replacement within 2 working days.
I assume that the reply `Mark` was for me - I am very sorry for your loss, my bit about mum or dad, was not aimed towards single parents that have lost their partner through such a loss as yours and your children, I will be more sensitive in the future, please forgive me.
M66
I find you extremely rude Mark, you know nothing about how my son was conceived, so I thankyou to keep your comments to yourself
Gosh. A disappearing post!!
I thought the facility to delete a post had gone.
Heck mark66 are you staff?
will if i like you or you like me so how we can contak lol ?
i like find frind and i can be here long time so what i can do lol ?
I want to know where that post has gone that Mark put on for me. Another one was posted in another thread, again from Mark, which was removed.
I did see the post hazeleyes, so know what was said.
It is surprising when such comments and assumptions are made. Two sides to every story and all that.
i hav jast 50 mint in day i cant be here if you like know more about me so you can sand me post ask for my adrass i will sand for you .
Thankyou Sparkling. Glad that you saw the post.
MODERATOR: posts can be deleted if they are deemed unsuitable. I am still able to see the posts, even if deleted by another moderator and can acknowledge that a post was removed.
sparklinglime - sorry if I got the name wrong?
So you saw my post on here deletedby someone?
Karim, perhaps you need to do a search for a dating site with a chat room? Then when you are able to be online, you could perhaps chat to someone...
This is just a place to leave a message or a bit of an update of things.
I wasn't making it up was I?
I read your post and then it was gone. You know full well too that you did post.
It seems you have spelt my name correctly - not that I'm too worried if it wasn't spelt correctly.
Glad the post was removed too - or deleted, as do personally feel that you are trying to get a reaction - and succeeded.
I hope you're ok hazeleyes xxx
Where did my post go? I am not a member of staff, someone deleted it, there was nothing rude in it, my post was aimed at `hazeleyes` and was not meant to be insulting, but factual.... where did it go?
M66
Moderator: The post was removed as it contravened the One Space Rules, specifically the one about behaviour towards other members
Am great thankyou Sparkling. Some people just join to get reactions, and totally spoil the group. Shan't let it bother me though. I won't be made to look as if I've made something up though.
Not factual when you don't know the facts, surely?
Having "known" hazeleyes for three year on here I do know the history. That is why your post was offensive.
Why were you glad that my post was removed?
Like I said, your post was rude Mark. Quite obviously it was aimed at me, as you'd put my name in it.
mark66 you have also reached conclusions about me too without knowing the history of what has gone on.
Assumptions which are negative and unjust.
But then I'm sure this outburst is simply making you rub your hands in glee.
Enjoy the weekend. And may I suggest using a search engine for family friendly cake recipies for 3 year olds.
3 yrs on here, wow you really must like internet based friendships?
Sorry, who was the one that talked about issues with men, (obviously my observation was not suited to this particular womens forum). Scan back anyone to a certain comment about men by a certain female on here.
M66
Yes, I do. And yes, I do have a life too.
Internet is good company when you're not able to go out and socialise.
I accept your apologies.
I'm sure there's going to be another downpour here...
What's it like your end hazeleyes? Hope its dry for C.
Yes 3 years on here, simply because it's a great support group. You seem to have joined, not for support, but to get reactions out of people. It's a shame we don't have an ignore button.
It's still quite good weather here, sunshine earlier.
hi well id love for my little girl see er dasd plus wud giv me a break, but as er dad violent thug no chance of tht, judge as said no contact and cafcass, if a dad is great and consistent then child wud benifit,
Another post bites the dust. You are truely an insulting man
What have I missed? 
Something not worth reading perhaps.
Have you found a recipe for a cake mark66? Has your son got friends over today? Glad he's better.
mark 66 where hell do u get off eh assuming bout any of us, if it wasnt for one space i dont no wot hell i wud of dun, seriously so if u aint gona post anythin decent then leave us alone
It wasn't worth reading Sparkling, so thankful you missed it. The powers that be are deleting as quick as they come.
I am a nice man - more of my posts are dropped - wonder why? Have you ever wondered why posts on any site are suddenly deleted without real reason other than personal opinion?
kiera, it's not worth getting wound up about. Did you have a good night out?
Its a shame though, as sort of hoped the more the merrier really.
Hope you're ok keira
It's good to know you have a nice side. It is the nice side that would be good to get to know.
Have you found a cake recipe for your son?
I like to think I'm being nice here...
av think and see why ur posts av gon when penny as dropped get bk to us
Seems only yours are being deleted, and they've all been read and noted. Your personal opinion is neither wanted nor correct.
I don't think I've had a post deleted, that I recall. May have been, but can't remember any.
Can you hazeleyes? Keira?
Nope Sparkling, you're clear
myn asnt bin deleted, aw and i didnt go out gutted,i was 10 min to b picked up by my mates dad and he drove off, so didnt go, got dressed up for nothing,i was rushin soo much, my little girl playin up really cryin ,i ad rush bath and run to where i was bein picked up, ad wait for babysitter , my mate said er dad really impatient, he drove off, so stayed in ,ad drinkx
Awww kiera. Sorry you didn't get to go out.
Perhaps it might be because I write for: Fathers for Justice and other similar online forums, plus I am a very well known activist for fathers and families? Who knows, well they know - probably deleting this as well.
Fathers for Justice, we don't wish to alienate mothers, looking at this you are doing the job on your own.
Try not to delete this message.
I can't see a reason to delete your post. I'm well aware you write for those sites, you have told us before.
I also post on other forums.
However, you do seem to enjoy getting a dig in when you could be really positive and helpful.
You may think you're being fair, and I'm being a bitch. However, I think I'm being fair and you are reaching unjustified conclusions without knowing the history.
You still haven't said if you've found a recipe yet.
You writing for Fathers for Justice has nothing whatsoever to do with why your posts have been deleted, as well you know. This site does not alienate fathers, as you like to think. Your above post won't be deleted Mark, because it wasn't rude nor insulting. For an intelligent man, I thought you would have worked that one out.
I think its rare to see anyone alienate a parent on this site without good reason.
There have been father's as long term member's here too, not just mother's.
Alienation is after all how one parent can see things. The other parent can see it differently.
There are reasons in your life as to why things are the way they are, just as they are in all of our cases.
Some fight tooth and nail to keep the 'other' parent in the lives of their children, just to see them choose to walk away.
We are all dealing with the here and now.
The site you write for is obviously fighting for the father's corner. I don't see this site as obviously fighting for the mother. Other than, of course, more of the poster's are female.
Certainly not the site's fault.
You could be bringing in a different perspective to posts. But, and yes, this is going to be taken badly, you do seem to come in fighting rather than putting a view point across that will be read and considered.
I just don't get the reason why you're finding the need to not be friendly.
Kiera, sorry to hear your night out was spoiled. Have you another one booked?
Hi pancakequeen
Yep, took 2 days off work to look after my son, not a problem for me, my son thought it was great being off school! But on day two as he was feeling much better but was not allowed back due to sickness - I decided to be the teacher and do things like homework etc with him. That did the trick and he went back the next day
M66