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hi louise well dumped him, i musnt b ready and cos i said i didnt want se ehim tonyt he flipped, in txt message sayin wot the hell am i upto, and called me wierdo, then he txt he needs to see me, told him not contact me again, callin me like tht, and yeah ryt im upto summat with 3 kids in the house, blocked him on fb, i like my own space, use to bein on my own, and u no wot cant b bothered with a man, want b on my own, all hassle bein with man, x
ooo Kiera, Just because you didn't want to see him one night he flipped and called you a weirdo ? Not good Kiera, glad you put some space between you and him, you have had so much going on in your life, you don't need to be insulted like that xx
ye scallin me wierdo then sayin i was upto summat, he now txt sayin i av no sense of humour, x
emotional abuse that is, poor you xx
exactly makin out its me with no sense humour, at least after 5 weeks ive told him pi***ff and not 2 half years like with my ex x
i seriously dont want a boyfriend, want to b on my own, tht is is xx
skyflower wots bin appenin with u, with court and thtxx
Terrified Kiera it's Monday I will hear what judge says I'm always terrified Kiera xx
good for you Kiera I'm glad you found out in time what he is like xx
i was same everytime i went court, espec contested hearin last august, terrified i wasx jsut didnt want to see the ex at all, but ad to x
Hi kiera, I just wanted to say that I am sorry to hear that the guy you were seeing behaved so rudely and abusively, but I also wanted to say Well Done You for not standing for it. 
He has shown his true colours in only a few weeks and you didn't put up with it. Did you have a feeling something wasn't right? Perhaps this can be a test for any future relationships, cancel a date and see what happens. 
anna i wasnt over reactin was i x
ha yes cancel a date and see reaction, well not gona av date, cant b bothered i av enuff goin on thts more important, my kids, and my sons epilepsy, so a man is last in line and thts way its stayin , yes tht lad txt me sayin right and swore sayin dont contact me again, and im full blown wierdo and im upto summat, then few hours lat txt me lol u dotn av sense of humour, avnt replied bk, dotn want to , felt bit on edge again liek i did with ex, and noway im avin any man makein me feel like tht, told him striaght its over and sendin them messages i think hes the wierdo and dotn contact me again, but he as, so paranoid tht he thninks im messin x
Well done Kiera you are not overreacting at all this is the way it starts and then it gets worst. So good of you to have seen it this quick !! X
No you were not overreacting keira, your right your children come first any decent man would understand that, you don't need to be playing anymore of those mind games, Well Done you on sticking to your guns.
How is your son, has he had another seizure?
hi my son asnt ad siezure since 13th january, so we wil see, i applied for dla, ad to answer few more questions, and they writinm to my consultant, so see wot appens there, yes my children cum 1st,. aint playin any mind gamers anymore, not a chance, stayin single, dotn want hassle x
Can't blame you Kiera, with all going on and Courts and all, I have given up completely
Can't blame you Kiera, with all going on and Courts and all, I have given up completely
Well done kiera, you have developed a radar for these things now!
Hey Kiera, missing you a bit on here, how are you now hun, hope you are alright as it was not easy for you last week xx
hi hun im ok, are u ok, u av court tomz, good luck hun, i av message u on another threadxx
Hi Keara Hun phones still off should be on soon this week x
glad you sent the DLA forms off I just got mines back again and its been granted for him again, is there a bank a count you can put money in but not withdraw for a certain time ore is it an Issa ? I want to put his away for him.
glad your son not had seizure for a bit that's good, our last one was wed ha how you doing, what you been up to?
Hello IDT, click here to see a guide to children's savings accounts
Kiera, glad you are ok
yes i sent dla forms off, i ad reply bk, i had to answer few more questions, they are gona spk to my consultant, they av wrriten sayin they are now lookin into my claim which is gud, so see wot they say, yes my son stil asnt ad siezure since 13th jan, he on 1300 mg now, he as mri head scan 18th feb x
its my eldest son birthday as well tuesday he wil b 16, it was my birthday 1st feb lol was 42, god im getin old lolx
Thank you very much for message Kiera you are good friend. Fantastic that your son hasn't had seizure anymore and so glad you are ok :) 42 is a fantastic age Kiera enough experience to be wise and still can join in on all the fun !!
Thanks for saving accounts Louise, so very helpful.
Ooh kiera your son is going to be 16, what he is going to do for his birthday?
Sounds hopeful for the DLA, fingers crossed.
Hey Kiera, it worked !! section 37 report looked bad on him and now he has given up and not fighting anymore for full custody and also does not want contact anymore apart from sending birtday cards and Christmas cards, I now have full custody and no more Court, no more stress and living in peace !! Thank you so much for support xx
Hope your son has lovely birthday tomorrow xx
Hi keira, just wanted to send my wishes for your son's Birthday, hope he has a great day xx
Happy birthday for your son Kiera ! Xx
hi skyflower well done bet ur so relieved, my ex as indirect contact but thru 3rd party, but no 3rd party as appended, so thts his problem , im really pleased for u hunxx
hi thank you for birthday wishes, im payin to av his teeth whitened next friday, his braces cum off 13th feb, makin his favouite meal later spag bol and got big birthday chocolate cake, he as got sum lovely cards, x
Awww sounds like he will have a super evening too, with yummy food! Lucky boy!
Will parents be coming over for tonights meal?
Sounds lovely Kiera, really lovely
Thanks so much Kiera I still can't believe it's over xx
Your Birthday tea sounds great keira, did you have a lovely evening?
hi well my son got middle rates dla, got backdated from november, used most money to pay towards our holiday abroad this july, and 150 deposit for school trip to cuba in 2016, for my eldest son, im ok anyway, glad my son got dla,
Hi kiera, I am really pleased you managed to get the DLA How lovely to have booked your holiday, where are you going?
Your lucky son going to Cuba, I bet that will cost an arm and a leg!
How is your son, did I read that he had a recent episode?
hi he asnt ad siezure for 2 months now, we av booked lanzorate for july for 2 weeks but now my eldest dawter graduation in july. she gona find out date, so myt av chnage date of our holiday
The holiday sounds lovely keira, i have been to Lanzorate i went to Costa Teguise the beach was really nice though this was sometime ago 
Hopefully the graduation won't fall the same time as your holiday.
Glad to hear the DLA came through, sounds like they have your sons seizures under control. How are things with your little girl have they improved any?
hi well bein on ur own and no support is hard, my 16 yr old son is in bed stomach pains, my 3 yr old little girl was sick last nyt alova er new duvet and pjs and as runs, this mornin same, rang nursery and advised to keep er off tomz as well, rang doctor ask if doctor cum cum do home visit cos no1 to av my little girl and plus she as runs and bein sick, woman said sorry doctor wont cum out to children, cudnt beleiev it, she said brign him in i said i cant cos no1 to av my little girl and she as bug, she sad nothin she can do, i said lets ope its not serious eh love and put fone down, is aid th woman is it meant to b tht doctor wil cum out to children, im so upset, so stuck at ome, il av ring ambulance if son gets worse and take my little girl with me even tho she got runs, mean wot hell do u do eh
Oh kiera bad luck, this is a horrible situation to be in.
How is your eldest this afternoon? Is he feeling any better? Have you given him any medicine?
How is your little girl this afternoon, is she feeling any better, give her plenty of fluids, preferably water.
Top tip for when you need to change the bedsheets in the middle of the night. Before bedtime, put on a plastic sheet on the mattress, then the top sheet, then put another plastic sheet on top of that and another top sheet, then if in the middle of the night you need to change the sheets you can just whip the top layer off.
It sounds as if they have both caught the same bug, have you thrown open the windows and bleached the toilet flush, surfaces, floors etc?
Have a look at Symptom Checker and if it is recommended to contact your GP then I would ring your surgery again and insist.
Let us know how things go tonight.
hi im back just took break off ere for while, well wot as bin happening, i av psoriasis but n ot ad flare up for few years so gutted whne last week it flared up, it appened when builders in putin new bathroom in for my son who as epilepsy, mayb ikts dust and stress, its called guttate psoriasis alove my chest back and arms and legs so im down bout it, it wil go in few eeeks ,im jsut glad its not nice weather, cos dotn wnat show my arms i wnet for meal with my mum yesterday and wudnt take my coat off eatin and i was so warm, anyway bathroom nice, shower and ne wtileing and new flooring, want nice blind now, got new bathroom set, miss my bath tho, hope u all ok x
Hi kiera, good to see you, yes I saw about the psoriasis on the other thread, poor you! I have a problem with my right arm and so I have a supply of very thin cotton cardigans in different colours and wear those, bit cooler than a coat!
The shower will be better for your son, what colour blind will you choose?
hi well had fone call of domestic violence woman just to tell me my ex as finished his perpertrators course, i was worried at 1st thinkin hes seriosu he wants contact but she said not necessarily he as to do it for court plus it wil look gud if social are involved with his family , then she said very much doubt he even afford take u court, she says it doesnt cost few hundred it cost thousands, anyway see what appens
Hi kiera I can imagine the flood of emotion that rushed through you when you heard your ex had finished the programme, I know that you were nervous about it.
It sounds as though you are being told that it is unlikely that he will take this situation back to court, because of money and having social services involved again. I hope she is right for your sake.
It was good that they kept you informed. Have you heard or seen anything of your ex since the last time you were in court?
O Kiera, how awful that you have to worry again....it seems to be really really over court wise when the children are 16 then Court is no more interested the guardian said.
It does cost so much so I hope that knowledge will stop your ex, will keep my fingers crossed for you and hope your skin will get better soon, you don't need the stress xx
hi no avnt heard off ex at alll, but my ex name cum up on facebook even tho he blocked, picture of him smilin with young blond woman,he makes me sick, ive deactivated my account again ,
thank you sky flower my skin same, apointment with skin specalist 4th july ridiculous , when u av psoriasis u just deal with it urself, u av to, ive hired a sunbed, it asnt made it worse anyway, yes doubt my ex can afford to take me court, x
Kiera so sorry he can still hurt you like that Facebook is awful that way, he has probably put that picture on purpose though God only knows what will happen to the young blonde woman. She will get hurt just as much.
Didn't know there was no help for you with your skin, poor you, is it sea water that helps and the sun ? It is a long time you have to wait Kiera you've been waiting already so long xx
Hello kiera, that is good that you have met a new chap. Remember to take things slowly and carefully, especially where his contact with the children is concerned...they (just like you) are still recovering from the upheaveal with your ex and they need a calm period so they can feel really safe.
How is your son doing? and you were talking about your daughter's behaviour over the holidays and before, hitting the dog and being disruptive, how is she doing now and is there anything we can support you with?