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MummyEmma1991

Hi there, welcome to our site, please introduce yourself!

What is your username?
How many children do you have?
How old are they?
Are they boys or girls?
How long have you been a single parent?

My Name Is Emma I Have a 5 Month Old Baby He Is A Little Boy and I Couldnt Be More Happier x x And I Have Been A Single Parent All The Way Through The Pregnancy

Posted on: September 14, 2009 - 4:57pm
halloween baby

Hi everyone, I am halloween baby, I have a 10 year old daughter, on the verge of becoming single

Posted on: September 14, 2009 - 5:02pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi MummyEmma
Welcome. How are you finding motherhood? Congratulations by the way :) .
I have a son who has just turned 7, and I've been on my own since pregnancy too. I actually think I'm a lot better off, as I don't have the constant battles.
Hope you and son are well.
look forward to hearing from you. Loads of support on here.
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: September 14, 2009 - 5:09pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Halloween Baby
Spooky name, :) Welcome.
Sorry to hear you are on the verge of becoming a single parent. It is hard but you will have lots of support on here. They are a great bunch, very friendly and helpful.
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: September 14, 2009 - 5:12pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

MummyEmma1991 wrote:
Hi there, welcome to our site, please introduce yourself!

What is your username?
How many children do you have?
How old are they?
Are they boys or girls?
How long have you been a single parent?

My Name Is Emma I Have a 5 Month Old Baby He Is A Little Boy and I Couldnt Be More Happier x x And I Have Been A Single Parent All The Way Through The Pregnancy

Hi Emma

Nice to 'meet' you.

Posted on: September 14, 2009 - 6:38pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

halloween baby wrote:
Hi everyone, I am halloween baby, I have a 10 year old daughter, on the verge of becoming single

Hi

Oh heck, I'm sorry you're facing this.

Posted on: September 14, 2009 - 6:38pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

hello halloween baby you are very welcome. I have just left you a long message on the other thread, so have a peek!

Posted on: September 15, 2009 - 10:55am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi Mummy Emma1991

Good to have you with us, look forward to getting to know you, do join in with the chat. How are you finding being a mum? it is hard work isn't it? Does your boy sleep Ok so you can get some rest?

Louise :)

Posted on: September 15, 2009 - 10:57am
Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi MummyEmma1991 and halloween baby......

Welcome to One Space and thank you for introducing yourselves and your children. Very different circumstances, but it just goes to show how individual and unique we all are. :)

I notice halloween baby that you say that you are about to become a single parent, I hope that you share more information on other threads so we can help you through what can be a very traumatic time. Remember You Are Not Alone!

Posted on: September 15, 2009 - 12:17pm
DogDays76

Hi i'm DogDays76
I've got a son whose just turned 7.
I live in Bristol.
I've been a single parent for 6 years, my son goes to his dad every other weekend.
I'm struggling - will post woes on another thread?

Posted on: September 15, 2009 - 4:58pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Dogdays
Welcome. I also have a son who has just turned 7. My son doesn't see his father. Sorry to hear you are struggling. It can and is very hard isn't it?
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: September 15, 2009 - 6:22pm
clara

hi dogdays
i have three boys 22 months . 7 and 9 .

Posted on: September 16, 2009 - 5:57am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello DogDays76

Welcome to One Space! Hope you find your way around the site Ok and will be joining in the threads, there are lots of different topics from the serious, to the informative, to the just very good fun. We look forward to getting to know you more ;)

Posted on: September 16, 2009 - 9:51am
Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi DogDays76

Welcome to One Space, so glad you have found us! It seems we already have a couple of people with 7 year old boys! Maybe there will have to be a specific thread on the subject, so you can compare notes!

You mention that you live in Bristol, have you heard of SPAN Study Centre? They offer all sorts of courses from recreational to qualifications for single parents, you can contact them on 0117 9522712 for more information. It is a very friendly environment where you can find support and friendship.

Posted on: September 16, 2009 - 9:54am
sophienaston

hi im sophienaston

i have one son who is 2 years old and have been a single parent for one year :)

Posted on: September 17, 2009 - 6:37pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Sophienaston
Welcome. My son has just turned 7. Have been on my own since pregnancy. How are you managing as a single parent? It can be hard, but at the end of the day, it is very rewarding. :)
Hope to chat some more.
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: September 17, 2009 - 6:50pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello sophienaston, welcome to the boards!

I do hope you will enjoy getting involved with the chat and all the different topics, we look forward to getting to know you more :D

Posted on: September 18, 2009 - 5:11pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hi sophienaston.

Looking forward to getting to know you.

Posted on: September 18, 2009 - 6:33pm
Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi and welcome sophienaston!

I am glad you have found One Space, I hope you find the support you are looking for. Please feel free to start a thread about anything that is not already being discussed.

I notice that you have a smile :) when you mention being a single parent for one year, are you enjoying it?? :)

Posted on: September 21, 2009 - 11:26am
chiquitita

Hi I'm Chiquitita (my kids are big Mamma Mia fans at the moment!). I have 2 girls aged 4 and 2 and am newly separated and feeling a bit lost and terrified at the moment. :(

Posted on: September 22, 2009 - 11:56am
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hi

We all love Abba here too!

It is terrfying at first when you are on your own, but with little steps and dealing with things a day at a time, you'll get there.

This is a brilliant board, and the support is tremendous.

Sending strength your way.

Posted on: September 22, 2009 - 12:00pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello chiquitita

Good to have you with us. Sorry you are feeling so terrified at the moment.I remember feeling terrified, too, but as time went on I felt much happier than I had in the relationship. Please do join in the chat, ask for the support you want, and make some new online friends :D

Posted on: September 22, 2009 - 12:43pm
leefern

hi im leefern i have 1 daughter who's 5 ive been a single parent for 9 months and jst realising how much happier i am :D

Posted on: September 22, 2009 - 10:06pm
anne

Helo, i am anne. please tell me how to work this.
Never mind i will look tomoz when i have more time.

Posted on: September 22, 2009 - 10:51pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

anne wrote:
Helo, i am anne. please tell me how to work this.
Never mind i will look tomoz when i have more time.

Hi Anne

Look forward to 'seeing' you tomorrow.

Posted on: September 22, 2009 - 11:53pm
Bubblegum
DoppleMe

chiquitita wrote:
my kids are big Mamma Mia fans at the moment!

My daughter liked watching that with me, she recognised the Abba in Pracilla Queen of the desert too : )

Posted on: September 23, 2009 - 8:24am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello anne

It looks as if you have learned how to post a message! When you click reply, it goes onto the thread you have replied to and all members can see your message. Hope you find your way around the boards today when you log back on, you will be very welcome to join us! :)

Posted on: September 23, 2009 - 10:27am
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Chiquitita
Welcome. Understandably you're feeling lost and terrified at the moment. It's early days yet, so it's still raw for you.
You'll get all the support you need on here, the people are great.
Speak soon
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: September 23, 2009 - 1:47pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi anne
Welcome. How are you doing today? Took me ages to work out this site, but once you get going, it's so easy. Believe me, if I can do it, anyone can, hehe.
How many children do you have?
I have a son, just 7, and have been on my own since day 1. I personally couldn't be happier.
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: September 23, 2009 - 1:50pm
Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi Chiquitita and anne

Welcome, welcome, welcome!!

Chiquitita, it is a really scary time when you turn around and everything that you had believed, trusted and took for granted disappears, we understand how you are feeling. Hopefully you will find inspiration on these online groups and see how others have coped. Please ask us any questions and we will endeavour to answer them and when you need an extra pick me up, have a read of these, and add your own! http://groups.onespace.org.uk/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=23

I hope that you figure out the boards anne, if you are having any difficulties, let us know, as Louise said, just click on Post Reply and we will find your message. You can join in any conversation or start your own, look forward to talking more!

Posted on: September 23, 2009 - 3:20pm
Sa21x

Hi im Sarah im 32 and I have 2 children my daughter is 13 and my son is 2..... :?

Posted on: September 26, 2009 - 12:52pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Sa21x
Welcome. You've come to the right place if you're looking for advice, support etc. The people are terrific. How are you? I am a single parent with a 7 year old son. He's wonderful. Have been on my own from day 1, and think so far I have done a good job. (I'll see when he hits the teens) :lol: :lol: Don't know why I'm laughing, I'm dreading it ;)
Hope you are doing ok. Will speak to you soon.
Take care
Alison
x

Posted on: September 26, 2009 - 1:49pm
chrissie

Hi, Chrissie, have one teenage girl, bn single parent -4yrs-wish it was longer cos ex was horrible and still is :(

Posted on: September 26, 2009 - 2:23pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Chrissie
Welcome. You'll get heaps of support on here if ever needed. I have a 7 year old, been on own from day 1. Hope you are well
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: September 26, 2009 - 4:58pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hi Chrissie

I replied to your post in another thread asking how old your daughter is.

Hopefully we can offer some support for you here - even if you find you just need a rant over his behaviour.

I call my ex The Git...

So sorry you're going through all of this. You must be devastated.

Posted on: September 26, 2009 - 6:09pm
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello Sa21x and Chrissie

A warm welcome to you both, I am looking forward to getting to know you better. This is a very friendly site and we are always delighted to hear how you are doing and for you to join in the chat, or post a new topic for yourself. Have a look around the boards and dive right in!

Louise :D

Posted on: September 27, 2009 - 6:01pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hi Sarah :)

Posted on: September 27, 2009 - 7:04pm
Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi Sa21x, glad to have you on board look forward to getting to know you. :)

Are you enjoying having a toddler again? Are you finding it different from having a girl? Does your daughter enjoy having a toddler around?

Posted on: September 28, 2009 - 9:28am
Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi chrissie

It sounds as if you are having a difficult time still with your ex. Even if it was 4 years ago that you separated. Please join in a chat elsewhere or start a topic where you can share what is going on for you. We are here to support you. It is unfair that you are still getting upset about ex, so let us help you overcome this. :)

Posted on: September 28, 2009 - 9:30am
dizzydolly

Hi my name is dizzydolly. I have 2 children, a boy aged 14 and a girl aged 17 2moz. I have been a single parent for 2 years.

Posted on: September 29, 2009 - 8:45pm
sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Hi

I hope your daughter has a brilliant birthday!

I have four children - 17 year old son (turns 18 in December :o ), 15 year old daughter, son 13 who has special needs and my youngest boy who's 10.

Posted on: September 30, 2009 - 12:48am
Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi dizzydolly

Like the name!! Glad you have joined us! Happy Birthday to your daughter!

I look forward to talking to you more. I would be particularly interested in hearing how your children coped when you and your partner separated, how you coped. In hindsight is there anything you would have done differently? Did your children see it coming? Did you know it was coming? Please share your story with us :)

Posted on: September 30, 2009 - 10:08am
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi Dizzydolly
Happy birthday to your daughter. Anything nice planned for her? Look forward to getting to know you.
Have yourselves a great day
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: September 30, 2009 - 10:48am
dizzydolly

We all went to the local indian restaurant, she has never been to one before so had a lovely evening.

Posted on: September 30, 2009 - 10:54pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Dizzydolly, that sounds really nice. Glad she had a good time.
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: October 1, 2009 - 6:28am
Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hello dizzydolly

Glad your daughter enjoyed herself.

A big welcome to One Space from me too, plase join in wherever and whenever you want! :)

Posted on: October 1, 2009 - 11:51am
Anna
Online
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi dizzydoll

Birthday sounds like it went well! I hope this means she will be trying out Indian dishes for you at home?? :D Perhaps you could get her an Indian recipe book for Christmas! :)

Posted on: October 1, 2009 - 1:36pm
AVELLANA4

Hi , I'm AVELLANA4 , I have 2 children , 8 and 11 , girl and boy ,
I have been divorced for 4 years and have no support from my childrens father.

Posted on: October 1, 2009 - 10:13pm
doit

hi every one my name is doit im 23 and i have 4 wonderfull boys 3,5,6 and 8 there mom died giveing birth to jack who is now 3( she was onely 22 i was 20) we miss her so much but we are copeing i just need advice on how to be a mom to 4 boys when im a dad . (yes i was 15 when denver was born i am proud i had him so dont judge me or my boys ) my so called family disowned me and ashelys did the same i havent seen them sence denver was born they havent seen any of the boys and when ashley died they didnt wont to know they dident even go to her funeral. but stuff them its ther loss if they dont wont to see them .

Posted on: October 1, 2009 - 11:40pm
hazeleyes
DoppleMe

Hi doit
Welcome to One Space. I am so sorry for the loss of your partner. No one here is going to judge you, so please don't worry about that.
I take my hat off to you raising 4 boys at such a young age as yourself, and without any support whatsoever from the families.
You already sound like a great dad. I am single parent to my son 7. I have always tried to be a mum and dad to him. I have explained to my son that I have to be both hard and soft with him, because i have to be 'mum and dad'. I don't do anything different with him I don't think because the other parent isn't around. I think I would say just keep doing what you're doing, it sounds like you're doing ok.
Are you getting any support from any groups?
Its still very early days for you and the boys. I know you must be very bitter toward the families, but is there no way of building bridges there? Do you have anyone that helps you out, so maybe you can get a break from time to time, just for a couple of hours?
Keep posting on here, you will find lots of support. Like you say, you are proud of your boys, of course you are, and you should also be very proud of yourself.
Take care
Alison
x :)

Posted on: October 2, 2009 - 6:57am