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I can understand you are frustrated, but better not to concentrate on your own experience, on someone elses thread that asks for support. Please be supportive on someone elses thread to them. We will support you on yours. We are all here to help each other, which means, if you write on her thread, you listen to her and help HER case.
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I think Rev was just pointing out that both men and women can suffer at the hands of the system and I had suggested he read ABT's thread so he could see that he is not alone.
But yes, if posting here then we need to be supporting and helping ABT. It does show us, though, that there are a variety of situations that happen.
Yes, that's exactly what I was pointing out, thanks Louise.
I have been aware that this system requires a total replacement for quite a long time. Although nothing is done about that.
For instance have you heard about Baby.P? Baby was abused, social services visited that family 50 times and somehow they failed to notice that it had bruises all over it's body. Baby died. Social services manager was dismissed from her job, as if one person could possibly be responsible for the whole incident? And to my astonishment she was later paid a large bonus and court decided that paying out this monies should be kept in secret from public. That's how this system works. Mafia!
Let me interfere here a bit. I accept and I support what was said about the social services and about this whole crappy system. But my situation is the opposite here. I am a man and I am a victim here. I was accused of hurting my children. I haven't seen them for 9 months now. No evidence, no assessments and a bullmanure investigation, which I've been told is still ongoing, but nothing, nothing is done at all. This system doesn't work. To tell you the truth I was always trying to get support from this system, from the social workers, from the police. I even wanted to become a special constable myself. Now I ask myself, how could I be so blind that it's all rubish?!