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Hi Sy. I really am sorry to hear that A has this. Just see what they say tomorrow, stay strong.
You've still got family Sy, it's just that they aren't there with you right now.
Hugs for you, A and Lk
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Glad you had a good weekend.
You do have family Sy, where ever they live.
My fingers are crossed that the meeting tomorrow goes really well.
Hi sadsy
That sounds quite hopeful that it is Grade 1. The "meeting" is a very standard practice as they get the input of the consultant, the oncologist, the radiographer etc all in one go. If they decide on radiotherapy, it will be done daily for a number of days.
Glad you enjoyed seeing your dad and sister.
How are you feeling today? That was a sensible idea to check Lk is in school. As for the suspension of contact, it sounds as if your ex is digging her heels in to re-establish the former status quo now the worst of A's illnes is over.
plastic trunking might be easier...
It's difficult to know what to say Sy, which is why I have basically been reading, and not replying.
I really do feel that you need to be doing positive things to get you out and interacting with people.
My friend's daughter used to help with riding for the disabled. Is there a branch close to you? Figure if there is one on Anglesey, there should be one your way. I'm sure they'd love to have someone volunteering for a few hours. I suggest this as you clearly love horses.
Being on your own does not help.
Done that for years, and it's almost a year now since I went back to work - even if it is for a very short period of time. It's daily, I have a chat with my friends, I have a laugh with customers (and rows), and it gets my mind working on other things.
I sat at home and cried for years, to be honest. (Ok, not constantly). You really do need to make moves now to do things that help you. And what can be better than volunteering with the horses and seeing the utter and pure joy on those youngsters who get such pleasure from the ponies.
A distraction from your worries could be just what's needed to help with the energy needed to carry on pursuing things.
Thats a very good idea of Sparklings, volunteering with the horses.
She loved it - she's in university now, but helps with another group when she's home (my friend's who moved down to mid-Wales' daugter).
She mucks out stables, groom horses and leads the horses around with the children. I don't think she gets to ride...
They had regular open days and my friend was so moved by it all. I'm allergic to horses.
What on earth is going on???? With posts I mean.
Some posts have been removed by Admin and that is all I can say. The Forum rules do not permit me to discuss this further. This thread is now closed for the time being.
Ex suspended contact with A yesterday. I has mentioned it was "particularly cruel" to make my dad and sister wait 4 hours to see A when they arrived in London at 10am, ex would only let them see A at 2pm.