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Hi Paulasgems
yes they disabled the messaging facility to that members did not get unwanted approaches!
I can change your user name for you. I don't think you can change it for yourself. I an sending you an email to your home email address, reply to that telling me what new user name you want, I will be logging on again later and will change it for you.
I guess it is a reminder to us all about things being in the public domain and to use user names rather than real-life names...... :?
Ok well I will leave it up to you, I have sent you an email so the option is there ;)
Hello Pansy
I am so pleased that you have experienced the last few days as a positive time and maybe this will help you on your journey moving forward, tell us more when you get the chance :)
Hi Bec
I am really, really impressed with your DIY achievement! 8-) Good news re GB too, just take iot easy as you are doing. Glad you have got your TV fixed.
Hello sadsy
No reason why you shouldn't become a pivotal member of the badminton group! (as long as they don't discover your kidnapped Quorns ;) ) Pansy is right, you have a very witty way of writing and maybe this is a talent you can use in the future?
Sparkling lime
Hope your day will be Ok today, look after you :)
Take care all
So glad you feel it went well.
Been thinking of you loads.
Hi Pansy
It was great to read your post, it sounds as if you really have cleared the air. I am not surprised that you feel like you have been run over by a bus, as it must have been so emotional. But give yourself a big pat on the back, for being honest with yourself and coming to a conclusion.
Today is YOUR day, put your feet up, read, eat popcorn and watch an afternoon film. Do whatever you want to do, if the girls demand anything from you, ask them to join you otherwise they must find their own activities. Only cook if you feel like it and only eat what YOU want! Its your summer holiday too and you really need some TLC.
Take care of you.
Hello sadsy
Good luck with all your various projects. I thought you were doing man-hugs, with gruff coughing accompaniment, for the guys?
Hi Pansy
How are you today? yes I think you need to think about how you will manage these visits if they are going to occur regularly, otherwise you could risk just making a reasonable recovery and it all starts up again :( My own feeling is that it will be difficult for him to keep up this visiting pattern month after month...so maybe the pattern might not be as bad for you as we fear. However, THEN you have the other problem of how the kids are with that. DURRRR! Probably best not to worry to much about it in advance and just take each development as it comes. In the meantime be kind to yourself and also congratulate yourself on how wonderfully you have done over the last few weeks
Ahem, no I don't think so, thank you very much sadsy!!
Cupid seems to be playing tricks on you, going around kissing all the girls! You better be careful! did you hear about that English chap in Greece?
He flashed a Greek woman and groped her, she threw Sambucca at his bits (!) and set fire to them!!
Sadsy I thought you were going to go back to work and then pop in at lunchtime!!
The Greek woman set fire to the English guys bits, he didn't do it to himself! :? That would be a bit odd!
Pansy, you don't have to do the rowing machine if you hate it. When I used to go to the gym, I used to do an hour and hated it. It always felt like such a chore, but then one of the super fit, young, gorgeous women that worked there said why not do 40 mins instead. I did and found that I enjoyed it SO much more!
I used to have a thing for Hugh Grant too, but now I find him immensely annoying! I want to look out for the Enchanted Cottage a b&w film that Louise was talking about. It sounds very romantic. :roll:
Have you seen Moonstruck Pansy? When the moon hits the sky, like a big pizza pie, thats amore??!!
That is dead romantic I think!
Hey Pansy, don't have a bad day. :)
I have just come across the following site:
http://www.aspergernauts.co.uk/links.php and wondering if there are any links there that can be of any use/support to you? It must be very touch dealing with it all on your own now, I would be surprised if your ex lasted a day let alone a week! Or this one? http://www.oaasis.co.uk/Links I am sure you have trawled the net yourself on all of this, but maybe you might find something new with these?
Ok change of plan, I have just been speaking to a lovely woman from http://www.addiss.co.uk/ who has given me some fascinating information on ADHD and ODD, their helpline is 020 8952 2800 Mon-Fri 10-3pm. I got through straight away. PS. Man on website is very tasty, maybe he could be your new love interest!! Tee hee!
Perhaps you could give her a ring and have a chat as I felt she was very informative. Do let me know if you do call!
Hi Pansy, good luck with the phone call.
The woman was telling me that if ADHD goes untreated in childhood then it tends to lead to ODD. She also told me about how children tend to inherit it from one or both of their parents. This then got me thinking about your partner and his drinking and depression and it made me wonder........
Maybe do a new message to Anna and Louise - I'm sure they'll read this anyway - and they'll sort it.
I left my name here once - not that I mind those posting knowing, and it's a common name anyway, I'm just happier it not showing!