hello
Pansy,
I am so sorry for your daughter. It's so awful. She must be inconsolable and angry all at once. It's really upsetting. I still can't believe it. Thank goodness she has you there for her.
Not all boys are the same though...
Sorry I'm back, internet has come on unexpectedly.
sy
what at home?
how did counsoller go ?
OOOOh have you got internet at home now????
And do you have an idea about these instant messanger things, because now I have done it I dont know how to work it, it is far to complicated for me!!
Hello Pansy,
One Space is not safe now I am unleashed again! Internet is back at home!
And do you have an idea about these instant messanger things, because now I have done it I dont know how to work it, it is far to complicated for me!!
I have noooo idea what you are talking about?
What is it?
sy
oh, there's a 'Y' thing on your post - where does it go?
click
It is so you can instant message, talk online, a box pops up. I only know about it because daughters use MSN messanger, but it carries virus so am reluctant to use that one. Oh no good asking you then!
how did it go tonight, is it helping?
:o
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Hello,
counsellor say I'm under incredible stress.
I'm still at survival stage - even now - not to look too far ahead. Just the day I am on.
I told him I can't get my eyes done and then tell him I don't have money to pay him. So I will wait till later. Not ethical. First time he lost for an answer. Did tell him about kissing week. He say I need therapy for years to get over pain and trauma of kissing week*.
He say I look very tired and need more sleep. Try take anti-D in morning, as it can interfere with sleep. Not to forget though!
How is your daughter Pansy, it has been so heartbreaking for her. How does a parent make sense of it all for her?
I feel I should apologise for male-kind. It's really upsetting.
Are you having wine tonight?
hug
sy
*of course he didn't!
Pansy...
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This is, er, very cryptic.
sy
Oh Sy, I'm really sorry yes I have had wine tonight & am being very stupid again!
I have to put serious head on now because you are suffering. You are under so much stress this week with leaving work & with court case next week & house & not seeing children & I am just being silly again. I'm sorry!
I don't actually know how you are doing it, you are amazing to carry on even. Maybe the worst will be over in a few months from now, it is just so hard that everything is happening to you at once.
You really need your sleep now, you should go & try & get some sleep.
I am glad your internet is working now, so at least you wont need to feel so alone at home.
Big hug ((()))
Pansy
uummm... yes I deleted it & may have to go back & delete the one before it too.
Oh no Pansy,
have your wine and enjoy it! No need for serious head. Whatever head you like is fine.
Odd that you mention suffering, as I say that to myself tonight in car, "I don't want to suffer anymore".
Feeling sorry for myself. Very self indulgent of me.
I put a note in my calendar way back last month that popped up - to myself - "book blood test for kidney function - hope you are happier now - love simon"
aaaaw, nice of me to think of me, hehe.
hug
sy
Oh - I've clicked the Y button - has it worked?
sy
Sy - have you read my very long post yet?
That will have you snoring in seconds. 8-)
Pansy, I was teasing my son about a girl the other evening and then we started to tease my daughter who said
What's the point of love anyway? It brings you no joy
I feel really bad about this, as this is what I've taught her.
Life isnt' easy, and I'm sorry your daughter is finding this out so soon.
you have every right to think of you at a time like this in your life & YOU need to be at the top of your list.
I am quite sure you will end up with a beautiful life when all the pain has left & cleared way for the new. Thats life isn't it!
& you seem a person who deserves the best.
hug
pansy
Sy - have you read my very long post yet?
That will have you snoring in seconds. 8-)
Pansy, I was teasing my son about a girl the other evening and then we started to tease my daughter who said
What's the point of love anyway? It brings you no joy
I feel really bad about this, as this is what I've taught her.
Life isnt' easy, and I'm sorry your daughter is finding this out so soon.
I know awful isn't it, that they have to find out about life!
you just want to protect them from everything don't you. First her Dad went now she feels used by boyfriend & is really regreting what she done.
Dont feel bad Sparkling, they all say that anyway, no matter what they have been through, ha! teenagers.
It wont work Sy, you have to have yahoo messanger yourself for it to work, then you can message people with it, but I'm not sure I have done it right anyway, I dont like these things may scrub round it if my friend cant help, I'll ask her tomorrow.
bubblegum has got one of these yahoo things I maybe I could ask him if I cant find out.
you should be sleeping!
go to bed!
he's nodded off reading the very long post I posted.
You two,
why is boys causing pain an inevitable fact of life?
Surely both sexes stumble through teenage relationships hurting eachother?
Except me, got burnt a couple of times at school then waited till I was 27. Aah well.
I miss school sweetheart Debra's hairy legs. She was so cuddly. sigh
sy
sparkling I didn't find that boring at all, I don't think anyone did. I am glad you posted it, it really makes you think how easy things can change, all these things we take for granted!
I often thought that maybe ex would end up a homeless person on the streets one day, because I often had a feeling he would just vanish one day & no one would know where he had gone. Dont know why really.
It's just that in this case Pansy's daughter's pain is being caused by a boy, and it was a comment my daughter made....
It's not being a generalistic debate against boys, honest. My son has had upsetting things from a couple of girls.
I think this board shows the pain that either sex can cause against the other.
See, at this point I could say to Pansy, aren't blokes sensitive?! Taking things personally 8-)
But I won't... :D
Changing subject while Sy snores after reading aforementioned post.
Pansy, do you get DLA for your daughter? I get it with my son who has aspurger's.
help,
where is this long post - I've got to lay out cushions on floor in a mo...
sy
a few threads below this.
My story, homelessness...
do you know I'm seriously starting to wonder if I have an eating disorder! :lol: I cant believe I am drinking this wine & not wanting food or maltesers! I have only had 4.5 point of food in weightwatcher terms, today. And all my clothes are starting to fall off! I am so pleased but dread the day I will be binging again, hope it never returns!
See, at this point I could say to Pansy, aren't blokes sensitive?! Taking things personally 8-)
But I won't... :D
:lol:
I can down a bottle on an empty stomach and be fine.
I've never had a hangover, even in the days when I used to have the odd night out.
Two years and nine days since The Git last had he children stay there.
sparklinglime wrote:
See, at this point I could say to Pansy, aren't blokes sensitive?! Taking things personally 8-)
But I won't... :D
:lol:
:D
8-)
:roll:
xxx
;)
Changing subject while Sy snores after reading aforementioned post.
Pansy, do you get DLA for your daughter? I get it with my son who has aspurger's.
yes I do sparkling & son also. I don't know how I'd cope without it! Also cares allowance because although what CA you get it taken off any income support, you are given a premium on your income support because of getting CA, if that makes any sense. Hope you are claiming that too Sparkling.
wooooot?
Wheeeeeeen have I ever taken things personally?
Aaaaannnd no more talk of clothes falling off.
I'm still trying to recover from kissing week.
sy
sparklinglime wrote:
Changing subject while Sy snores after reading aforementioned post.
Pansy, do you get DLA for your daughter? I get it with my son who has aspurger's.
yes I do sparkling & son also. I don't know how I'd cope without it! Also cares allowance because although what CA you get it taken off any income support, you are given a premium on your income support because of getting CA, if that makes any sense. Hope you are claiming that too Sparkling.
Yes, I get that too. Huge difference!
No one ever adviced me to claim until I was getting income support.
wooooot?
Wheeeeeeen have I ever taken things personally?
Aaaaannnd no more talk of clothes falling off.
I'm still trying to recover from kissing week.
sy
Who was talking of clothes falling off? What have I missed?
I so want toast
I can down a bottle on an empty stomach and be fine.
I've never had a hangover, even in the days when I used to have the odd night out.
Two years and nine days since The Git last had he children stay there.
Oh no! I never thought before. No respite for you either :( well I say either but hope my ex will come once a month like he said so I can go away or out alot!
Nope. No respite.
Not a day when I haven't had to sort out tea - even if its buying fish and chips as I can't face cooking!
I try and focus on the fact the children are happier.
But I'm so tired. So very tired.
And mother-in-law telling me how happy The Git is - well, he would be wouldn't he??? To be fair she is his step-mother, and is very supportive.
Two years since I last went to the cinema!
A year now since I last went for a bar snack - it was after a Scout camp, and I went out with the then Leaders...
Sad, isn't it? No wonder I wallow!
Here it is,
And all my clothes are starting to fall off!
M'Lud - how do you plead to the charge of wilfully mentioning clothes abandonment in presence of Sadsy? Do you deny the charge?
Pansy - no sir, I'm really very guilty M'Lud
M'Lud - SEND HER DOWN!
M'Lud - er, leave the maltesers there on the parapit, please.
sy
Well do you know I went no where when ex WAS HERE! or We went nowhere, even. Like i've said before emotional prision I lived in! life has passed me by for years, but I am planning on living it from now on!
Here it is,
And all my clothes are starting to fall off!
M'Lud - how do you plead to the charge of wilfully mentioning clothes abandonment in presence of Sadsy? Do you deny the charge?
Pansy - no sir, I'm really very guilty M'Lud
M'Lud - SEND HER DOWN!
M'Lud - er, leave the maltesers there on the parapit, please.
sy
typical! only you could pick out a sentence like that!
hahaha!!
Clothes abandonment!
I wouldn't dare. The laughter would be deafening.
life has passed me by for years, but I am planning on living it from now on!
GGOOOO FOR IT PANSY!
Cheeeer!
sy
hahaha!!
Clothes abandonment!
I wouldn't dare. The laughter would be deafening.
Yes actually...that would go for me too!
I'm not sure if I'd know what to do on a night out now! Although, sadly, I have no one to go with anyway, so little point worrying!
:lol:
can you hear the coggs working sparkling??
he is trying to think what he can say to us now! :lol:
Sparkling!
that is too long!
Two years since I last went to the cinema!
I would offer to babysit, but I fear you would return to find me all trussed -up and hanging upside-down from the kitchen light. "Oh yes, they've been good as gold!". "Movie any good?"
sy
Eldest can babysit!
Heck, the whole forum could go for a night out!
We should all watch a film that's on tele (sorry bubblegum) together and chat about it on here!
That would be a night out for me
yes, I think she has just found out the hard way about boys & sex!