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Pansy

It is about time I got that kiss! :lol: thanks Sy ;)

And about time you drove back from your Mum's dont want to be falling asleep on way back!

go careful x

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:24pm
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sadsy

hello,
yes, was getting more advice about me not being ready and how can I tell. Got very mystical answer from moderator that went over my head. Then Bubblegum came back with this, which I will always remember:

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I had a girlfriend once that just went on and on about her previous boyfriend Jethro, bloody Jethro, I was only in my early twenties but what ever I did got me a Jethro used to to that or not do that or what ever, Jethro, Jethro, Jethro. I was once clumsily fumbling inside her jumper, as you do : ) well if you are a boy that is, I suppose, anyway, only to have her tell me that when Jethro did that it would make her climax.

? ! Hadn't she heard how fragile mens egos were?

It didn't last long and when I told her I had found someone else she attacked me with a cowboy boot and gave me a black eye : )

I still laugh at that. Shouldn't really :lol:

What does sobriety mean?

Must have a tea for sec.

Firm, reassuring handshake.

sy

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:26pm
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sadsy

Paaaaansy,
what is this all about, where is it, I must see...

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Louise, I am devastated about that smilie! If Sy had of read it, he would have been rightly upset because of how it happened to read. Do hope he is ok!

I've been away for so long, don't know where to start?

Courteous bow (no hat though or ellaborate hand movements).

sy

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:32pm
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Pansy

Oh its silly. In one of my posts to you, when I read it back 2 hrs later I noticed a smilie that I had not put in. It was the geek one :lol: & I was bit upset you may think I was calling you a geek. I had gone to put a wink in but the geek went in too because this stupid laptop does things sometimes without me clicking on them.

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:36pm
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Pansy

Sy,
are you using your Mums pc or a phone?

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:39pm
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Pansy

have u got work tomorrow?

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:45pm
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sadsy

Aaaaww, I've missed so many posts.

I love silly posts too. Have to go hunting for it. I'm so behind.
Does it have word "geek" in it? I can search for it.

I have brought my laptop to mum's and it connects up to the wireless there automatically.

No, not at work Monday, am supposed to be looking for work from home tomorrow. Not want to go back to house and see all party balloons and decorations, but no children in beds. Putting it off.

Yours, forever yours

sy

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:49pm
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sadsy

Oh and Paaaaansy....
someone has started appearing in my dreams instead of satyr lady.

What do I do now? I'll never know middle and end of satyr story now.

On knees with bowed head, my lady

sy

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:52pm
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Pansy

Sy you wont find the geek thing because I deleted it when I saw it.
maybe some post on my 5 wk thread you did not see too, cant remember now.

yours truley
Pansy x

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:53pm
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Pansy

is it more aliens or weather girl?
nice or nasty?

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 10:55pm
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sadsy

Paaaansy
You knooooow who it is!

It's not the weather girl or aliens!

I have to go now, drive off in night.

Sleep well. Sigh.

Yours ever faithfully

sy

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 11:02pm
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Pansy

:oops:

drive carefully!

Posted on: August 16, 2009 - 11:04pm
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Anna
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Right that is enough you two!

Obviously those kisses have been creating all sorts of ideas in your head sadsy and poor pansy looks embarrassed that you have been dreaming of her (yes I know who you were talking about!)

So Louise and myself have to be chaperone's too eh?? I am very glad that you have donned a suit and having a courteous week as it was getting all to intimate on here. :o

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 10:16am
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Anna
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi pansy

You seem to be having a lot of difficulties with using these online groups. What you could do is once you have read all the messages you think you need go to the top right hand corner on the Parenting Alone Index page and click Mark Forums Read then whenever there is a new message the circle on the left hand side of the topic title will turn red. Maybe this will help??

Have you heard of Video Jug? My daughter showed it to me, It is a video site on 'How to do just about anything!' I had a look and thought you could show your daughter and her boyfriend. There is 'How to put on a condom' There is also 'How to know when I am ready for sex' and many many more. The website is http://www.videojug.com
Good Luck!

Oh and I also wanted to say "Well done you, for finding the strength and resolve to remove your wedding ring" Many people keep it on for years, but it sounds as if it is a significant step forward for you and you have done it! :)

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 10:33am
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Pansy

Anna wrote:
Right that is enough you two!

Obviously those kisses have been creating all sorts of ideas in your head sadsy and poor pansy looks embarrassed that you have been dreaming of her (yes I know who you were talking about!)

So Louise and myself have to be chaperone's too eh?? I am very glad that you have donned a suit and having a courteous week as it was getting all to intimate on here. :o

ummm... be back to this one later as don't know what to say,may not say anything, have to do kids tea now...time to think..

when I come back though, will be as formal as is actually possible for me to be, if in fact that is possible for me. :lol:

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 5:35pm
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Pansy

Dearest Anna,
Thank you for pointing out the need for chaparone's in this situation. I would be honoured if you & Louisa would take that role & you can rest assured that I will give my upmost discretion as to what really goes on in my mind. ;)
yours sincerley
Pansy.

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 7:33pm
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Pansy

My Dearest Sy,
It is with great pleasure that I have recieved your kisses this week, but it has been brought to my attention by our chaperone's that we must ensure discretion at all times (well, maybe just formal week though!)

I would like to take this opportunity to thank you for making the sun shine on me this week.

yours ever faithfully

Pansy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 7:41pm
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Pansy

:lol: :lol: and you thought it was safe on formal week!!! :lol:

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 7:42pm
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sadsy

Oh! just logged on.

er.

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 8:10pm
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sadsy

OK.

I will say this once only.

I do apologise to all One Space members and visitors and our hard working moderators for any hurt or distress I may have caused. I especially apologise to dearest Pansy, for any embarrassment or worry.

We are all so vulnerable, and I guess I have found how vulnerable I am in coming across such a lovely spirit as Pansy.

I do not apologise for my feelings and feel no shame, as there is not enough light and love in the world.

sy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 8:17pm
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Pansy

:oops: ummm...
so how are you today sir?

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 8:28pm
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Pansy

did you find any work today? hope it went well.
kids are doing my head in, have just had to come upstairs to get away from them.

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 8:34pm
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Pansy

ok right!
you didn't mean that about causing distress & hurt did you! because that is silly if you did, you were joking right?
As for causing me embarrassment to me, well do I care, no I don't. Hope you are ok, as you suddenly disappeared.

yours sincerley
Lady Pansy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 9:26pm
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sadsy

hello Pansy,
how was your day today?

Always look forward to hearing from you.

faithfully

sy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 9:38pm
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Pansy

well there were lots of men coming & going today! don't know what the neighbours thought. Door man was here again today, bloke to sort electrics & grass cutting man, had to get him to do back, grass to long to get lawn mower through.

But I asked you about your day first. You dont seem yourself, hope you did not have a bad day.

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 9:43pm
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sadsy

hello Pansy,
glad you are getting things sorted out. I've missed many posts and not sure about which doors?

Did you see any painted lady butterflies in Dorset, they have come from north africa to visit?

Hope you are having a lovely evening. Any wine this week?

sincere

sy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 9:57pm
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Pansy

sy,
yes there are lots of painted lady butterflys in Dorset. I have seen quite a few. Butterflys have always meant something in my life, they always turn up at significant times in my life. I had one in the bedroom yesterday, the last time that happened I had just concieved my first daughter, although I can assure you that is not what I was doing this time! (OMG I'm on a slippery slope again! ) not trying to be funny if anyone thinks that, it is true what I say.

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 10:05pm
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Pansy

you still have not said if YOU are ok Sy & how YOUR day went.

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 10:08pm
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sadsy

Oh wow,
making babies with butterflies flying around. That's so lovely.
I'm adding it to my list of things to do, including seeing the northern lights.

Have been talking to butterflies when they cross the garden path in front of me "look at you, your so pretty!"
They don't say much back though. Think they're embarrassed.

sincerely
sy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 10:12pm
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Pansy

Sy,
I have just written post, but everything I say just seems silly now & I cant think straight so I had to scrub round it.
Hope you have a good day at work tomorrow & good nights sleep.
Pansy x

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 10:27pm
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sadsy

Hello Pansy,

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you still have not said if YOU are ok Sy & how YOUR day went.

You are right. You are very perceptive. Quite right to not let me off the hook too.

Well, you know. I am very silly as you may have noticed. And, Well I spent some time and effort trying to connect to OneSpace via my mobile today (not on my talkplan, so very costly). Eventually got through and saw note about my conduct. Felt a bit panicky that I might not ever speak with you again. And then, well I asked myself why it meant so much to me. Got a bit wobbly, as "I am really fond of Pansy" was the answer that came back. Maybe it will pass? Better to be honest I guess.

So am a bit shaky and confused.

Hope you're not too embarrassed. It's a nice thing surely?

Got to drive back home now. Try and avoid the suicidal orange-eyed foxes. I'll wind window down and talk them out of it. Things will get better for them. I'll give them helpline number. Or maybe they'll talk to me. Like the stag I came across who stopped me to let herd across road. He was something else.

Am 'working' tomorrow.

Hope the sunshine and butterflies find you tomorrow.

faithfully

sy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 10:31pm
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sadsy

I did have a very funny story about something I did today. Still you got to try these things?

However it is PG/16 rated. So best left I think.

sy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 10:58pm
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sparklinglime
DoppleMe

But we're all over 18, I think... :D

I replied to you in the 'general' thread...

Hope you're doing ok Sy.

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 11:04pm
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sadsy

night night sparkling.

Wish you were near.

sy

Posted on: August 17, 2009 - 11:08pm
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Pansy

Anna,
Thank you for the video jug link, it sounds great. I will look it up when I have less on my mind.
Have sent Louise & you email by the way.
Pansy

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 8:15am
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sadsy

oh no.

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 8:54am
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Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Good morning one and all

Sadsy it is natural that you feel close to the friends you have made on One Space, no need to worry :D

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 9:27am
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Pansy

Morning Sy :D
I'm still here!
sorry had to go last night :o :cry: :D :? :? :? & even :x (with me)

Taking son & his friend out somewhere soon, be back this afternoon.
Pansy x

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 9:54am
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sadsy

Hope your trip goes well Pansy.

sy

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 2:42pm
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Pansy

yes thanks, kids enjoyed themselves anyway.

pansy

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 2:46pm
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sparklinglime
DoppleMe

My goodness.

100 pages

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 4:34pm
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sadsy

we should celebrate.

sy

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 4:35pm
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sparklinglime
DoppleMe

I have wine... :D

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 4:36pm
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sadsy

aaaaaww not wine!

I'm not allowed!

OK, wine it is, you'll have to describe it to me as a virtual experience.

sy

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 4:39pm
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sparklinglime
DoppleMe

Flip! Flip! Flip! Sorry, I forget, and that's mean. :(

I have elderberry cordial
apple squash - 50% real juice
orange squash - 50% real juice
blackcurrant - 40% (why?) real juice
and pineapple - 50% real juice.

Nothing fizzy in, I'm afraid to make it sparkle. :)

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 4:44pm
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Pansy

Oh I am really not having a good day! why does everything happen when you feel so low yourself.

My little man is being sick & my eldest daughter that I told you about the other day has just been dumped by the boyfriend.

I feel sick at the thought of food & have not eaten a crumb today! but need wine so will have to eat something!

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 7:07pm
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sadsy

Oh Pansy!

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eldest daughter that I told you about the other day has just been dumped by the boyfriend.

I can't believe that! How is your daughter? That is so hurtful. Poor thing, after that terrible shock. I'm so sorry for her. I know teens are mean, but this extra mean. I am not impressed with ex boyfriend! :evil: grrrrrrr.

What's up with little guy? Does he have temperature?

You sound so stressed, I'm not surprised either. What a tough day for you all.

And I can't stay online much longer either to make sure you OK.
I have counsellor.

You can make through to end of day Pansy, steady. Maybe I can check through my ancient mobile tonight, see if you OK?

Please take care of yourself Pansy.

sy

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 7:17pm
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Pansy

hope all goes well with counsellor Sy & that YOU are ok tonight.
Pansy x

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 7:20pm
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sadsy

thank you!

night night :P

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 7:37pm
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Louise
Parenting specialist DoppleMe

Hi Pansy

it never rains but it pours

Hope your little one is feeling better soon. I have every sympathy with you, dealing with your broken hearted daughter. It has just happened to my son too. Difficult when there's little we can do to help :(

Posted on: August 18, 2009 - 8:51pm
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